Does teh number of men a woman has slept with alter your opinion of her?

This questions is obviously geared more towards men, but women can state their opinions too. Does the amount of men a woman has slept with alter your views of her in anyway? If she gets to a peticular number, is she considered a slut? And what do you think of random sex?

 

I thought I would get a lot of responses to this

 

Actually, its not the number that gets me, its the terms or conditions to witch she agreed to have sex(This more or less plays into you're second question too). If she is the type who will have sex on a complete whim, and gives it up easily(to be "easy") Thats when she is considered a slut. If this happens once because she got a bit too drunk, or because the guy was just impossible to resist, She isn't a slut, but if there isn't any reason at all behind the sex, and there isn't any prior relationship with the person(pluss if this happens more than 3 times in a month), she is partaking in "slutty" behavior.
My judgment towards them would be just a bit skewed in a negative light, but i'm not one to really care.
If you're wondering if i would consider having a relationship with somebody known to have a slutty lifestyle, as long as it was serious and she had the ability to commit to a relationship and not screw around without me knowing, sure i would.

 

I tend to associate it more with how practiced they are. Someone with 400 notches on their belt probably knows how to handle a cock.

EDIT: But to answer your actual question, I try not to judge. My mind makes me think that I might get Chlamydia from them. Although 2 new partners a week is pretty slutty if it goes on for a while.

 

of course it would affect my opinion of them, if they had sex with no one, or with 2 people, it would change my opinion of them. Once you learn something about anyone it alters your opinion of them. i may like them less, i may like them more, i may like them just the same, but realize they're different than how i imagined them in my head.

 

you schooles at all? gad grammer...

 

My opinion of people is based solely on how their personality is. To tell the truth my gf admited to having sex one time when she was out of town, but I didn't love her any less in return.

 

this is exactly what I was going to say, worded better:

 

If it's ten or over, I say forget it. Which means that I'm actually very repulsed by a great number of the people on this board!

 

i agree with floyd. ten or over is just nasty. seriously.

 

over ten at what age?
over ten at age 50 well, thats low
over ten at age 17 may be a bit high for a fair number of people
over ten at 30 seems a little low to me too... less than one per year, assuming the average person becomes sexually active around 16 or so (som eyounger some older of course)

 

my girl actually sat down and made a list one night of all the guys she was with before me and it ended up a lot more than ten but it doesnt make me love her any less. i actually get rather horny listenin to her tell stories about sex in the past.

 

First at 13.
By 15 i had slept with at least 10.
By 20 i had slept with at least 50 girls...
By 25 (i had stopped counting) had to be almost double what was at 20..those were fun years!..

Now i am 28, married, and reasonably faithful..and my wife thinks my experience is a turn on.

 

Reasonably faithful? IDK why that made me laugh but it did.

 

no, the number of people a person has 'slept with', of any sex, does not alter my opinion of him or her. i would not make my decision about their worthiness as a human being, or whether i wanted to be in a relationship based on that kind of information. i'm a member of the free love generation, and to me sex really is making love. yeah, you do need to take precautions and stay clean, respect your body and the body of your partners and all that. but in my opinion, the people who are hung up about this kinda 'numbers' thing are hung up about their bodies being 'bad' and sex being 'wrong'.

on the other hand, i wouldn't think less of someone who had little sexual experience either. and if i liked them, and they'd let me, i'd set about rectifying the situation.

 

Makes me think she knows how to have a good time which is always good. Nothing wrong with experience.

 

I Never worry about how many men a girl has been with . Its not even a thought that comes up to me , I wont think a girl is a slut becuz of the number of men she has been with but more on how she acts when shes with me .Any guy who spends a bit of time with a girl can tell if shes a flussy or not.

 

Quotes like this make me believe i need to ante up on the love maken lol

 

Nah, don't really care. I care about how she sees herself and if she is comfortable with her body

 

The number don't matter. It's as Bishiness said - the terms.
Did the person mean something to her, or was she just fucking any pole he could find just to fuck.
I don't mind the first - at least there was some kind of feeling. The latter can be ok to, as long as its in check.