If she does, let her know it. If not, be gentle and let her know that too. but, let her know why not. please, don't let physical changes be the reason. she's still the same person you married and fell in love with. Just my advice to married guys.
My wife and I went camping matt, (over easter break) even 5 months pregers with my second child she still helps me pitch the tent. wink, wink, nudge, nudge, say no more, say no more.
i guess i must still do it for dave, god bless him. frankly, i find myself repulsive right now...it's taking too long to get back in shape for my taste, what the hell has happened to me?
You two made it 27 years? Congrats!!!! Then, you know what I'm talking about. For the rest of ya, it isn't JUST about the physical luvin. There's all the crap you've each put up with over time. We all get sick. Does he/she take care of you during those times? If so, GREAT! If not, find someone who will. THAT, is why we get married. NOT just to have it available! p.s. This June, it will be 18 yrs for me & mine. Here's her pic.
They SAY, that Behind every GOOD man, there is a good woman. That one is MINE! And Bless everyone who can say the same for thier spouse!
You are right. It's not all about the physical stuff but too many couples kill their marriage by cutting out the physical side of it. We do tons of caring things for one another. Have put up with tons of crap over the years too--both of us from each other--we just have to ask ourselves what is more important? Do I love my spouse more then I dislike what has happened? Its a give and take constantly. AND no scorecards either.
