Don't know why Im asking but could use some advice

I dont know why im asking, I usually am 2 embarassed to ask for advice, but this is confusing and if anyone takes time to read and respond to this I appreciate it.

I've been seeing someone for about 2 months and he wants me to move in with him. I'm at my sisters now, and we fight all the time, and it's not a great situation but I know i'm "safe" here, I guess is the right word.

I have a 5 yr old and wanted to wait til the end of the school yr since it's only 2 months away, and then maybe try to go there for the summer and see how it works out. I guess I'm afraid to take a chance. I've done it in the past with people who weren't worth it and it worked out bad for me.

My feeling is this guy should understand that I dont want to pull my son out of school this close to the end of the yr. Am I wrong? And am I wrong for being scared? If I leave it'll cause a fight with my sister, and I'll never live it down if I'm forced to come back here, if she'll even let me. Should I say F*ck it and just go for it? or wait til the end of the yr and go for it? Or not do it at all?

I guess I'm scared of history repeating itself. On one hand if I stay here and leave him be, I wont have to worry about it, but on the other hand, if I dont take a chance I'll never know and have to wonder "what if"? Any advice??? I'd really appreciate it, thanks!!

 

of course you should wait

of course he should understand

when you're a mother, your childs best interest and well being should always be number one priority....

the fact that this guy doesnt seem to understand why it's not a good idea, is quite indicative that he is inconsiderate and looking to fullfill his own needs before those of others...


do not say fuck it, you keep that kid in school and take the time to think about whether or not you really want to live with this guy or if you're just lookin for a way out of your sisters......


if this guy really loves you, he will wait for you and your son to be ready for the transition...