Dream guy!!!!

ladies what is you dream guy like? and if you are with your dream guy then describe what he is like.

looks, smells, personality traits(example would be great) and the other stuff.....

ime a guy and i am very curious.....

 

well i'm a guy and i would like to know this too.

 

I'm marrying him thats Shaun, Me and Dad

 

There's no such thing!!
Dreams usually turn to nightmares!

 

lol sounds like someones a woman scorned.

 

Not so much scorned as tired of being hurt and disappointed!

 

Unfortunately, you're probably gonna get a different answer from every woman who'll reply. You'll be more confused than if you didn't ask this question in the first place.

 

I dunno. I love an open minded guy. One with a strong personality. Confidence. Free spirited but very close to certain people. Careless about what people think about them. Adventurous, laid back, great smile, a great body can be a bonus. Independent, caring, thoughtful, a go getter...

oh and a guy with dimples is a bonus

 

i truly am sorry, you have had such a such a bad expernces with some of us guys. not all of us are assholes.
i have had my share of "dream gals" who were first class assholes too.
mostly i have had good girls/women around me.

may i please offer you a suggestion?
if you keep winding up with guys, in your life who are assholes; ask yourself, if there is something about you, that makes you choose that type of guy or, if there is some type of 'vibes' your giving off that, attracts that type of guy to you.
if you can't find any answers on your own, find a psychologist who has a background in couples and families systems to help you.
i hope i have been of help to you and, i also that you will find a good guy to bring into your life.

 

He looks like a 6ft2 red haired guy and his eyes look like desert islands-yellow in the middle and blue around the edge
He smells...uh. Normal?
He's gentle, kind and compassionate. Talented and hardworking. Funny and considerate, and he steps up to the mark and looks out for me. It takes a special kind of guy to put up with me I think

This is my husband. We've almost been together 5 years now so still just early days

 

Well yeah, if you're after any answers about women in general then the thread is ridiuclous. I figured it was just to make conversation

 

There's no such thing as a dream guy or woman. I think the word dream is the key. We've all got our faults, that what makes us all so loveable in our own special way

 

So your saying everyone sucks in their own way? I thought you said that its our faults that make us loveable, doesn't that mean there are "dream people" then? Imo i just think most people suck and some people are great.
edit: mabey thats a bit harsh. Im rephrase that and say more than half of people suck.

 

i totally agree with you dacre. Most people do suck and are idiots. I been on many many dates and been with most types of people to the point where I know what I really want now and I wont settle for something less because if you do that, you just settle yourself for more and more

As long as you see that and you figure out what you like/not like then its okay to think of a dream guy/girl

 

i like dark haired men, not stuper long hair but longer hair messy is a pretty big turn on to me.

personality wise i love a guy that's funny, witty, sarcastic, sensitive but not ridiculous with it,
i mean it's just a matter of their personality linking with mine. i like someone who is like me. same music interests, ect ect

 

I'm a brat with A.D.D. so I need to be with someone who could handle it.

I want someone who respects my independance, my ambitions, my intelligence and my feelings. Someone laid-back, sensual, self-confident, intelligent, kind, tolerant and with a good sense of humor (remember I'm a brat with A.D.D.!). I have a taste for eccentric, artistic, spiritual and politically incorrect people. I don't really care about his physical appearance, as soon as he has nice eyes, teeth, skin, hands and penis (tee-hee!). I prefer tall guys with dark hair, but I wouldn't say no to Mr Right if he looks different.

This describes pretty much my man. He is a bit shorter than me, but he blows my mind.

 

I need a guy that is openminded, sweet, laidback,independent, motivated,smart, opinionated and openminded with a great sence of humor.
I am also looking for a guy that has simular interests such as nature, camping, drumming, culture, music, traveling, veggie food, and helping animals.
I need someone who doesnt just dream but makes it reality.

I am not really into looks but I am human and I find facial hair,nice teeth and eyes extremly attractive.
Dreads are really sexy to
Idk thats all I can really think of lol.

 

Normally when I try to figure out a "dream partner" I end up scratching the whole plan because of things like this-

"I would want them to love travel as much as I do. Well wait, what if they wanted to travel to different places or in a different style than I want? Or if they cared more about it than I do. Or..." That kind of thing.

"I would want them to care about others and the environment. But not more than me because what if they made me feel bad for not being as caring as them, what if it made me feel inadequate, or like I don't try hard enough to volunteer a million hours a week, or what if they spent so much time doing goodwill that I never saw them enough?"

That kind of thing. Then I think, well okay, as long as that person cared about the things I care about just as much as I do and no more or less, buuut then I'd be dating myself and that would be incredibly boring. SO. My dream partner would be someone who I can learn from, and who would learn from me. It would be a mutual exchange of knowledge and we would be full of love and warmth with each other, and make great teammates going through life. That's it

 

Somone not afraid to be themselves and speak their mind...maybe a touch insanity so were on the same page...artistic...and kind.