dude i'm like hysterical =[

i didn't know where else to post this so i hope you guys don't mind if i post it here

me and andrew (my boyfriend) were arguing and i was already crying

and then i hit the end button by accident and now he won't answer my calls

and i'm crying so much i don't know what to do

 

sorry to hear that dunno what to tell you i was never good with relationships

 

my relationship is fine ..i hope

like we were arguing and i hit then end button my accident and now i don't know what to do

i called him back immediately and his phone was already off by then

and i can't be like this it is deffinately not safe

 

that sucks. i cant help im no good. sorry

 

If you really care about the guy then you gotta realize this

when its truly love, it means even when things are harder then they've ever been before, you still want to be there
just calm down, and let him chill

and try to talk things over tommmoro

 

i can't chill
chill is not in my vocabulary

it was a fucking accident he didn't ned to shut his fucking phone off he knows i have problems and he knows not to fuck with my head and leave me alone he fucking knows

and he still won't fucking answer

 

wait until tomorrow , calm down . let him think; you think ; and then tomorrow talk

 

chill down!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

do you really smoke?? and you can't?? chill??????????

 

i can'''ttttt i can't chill out

i made the doc take me off my meds cuz i thought i didn't need them but i regret it

i deffinately need them and i deffinately can't deal with this

 

i know you dont wanna come down
and i know i post about this alot
(sorry, if it bothers anyone let me know)



but if you do something rash you're gonna regret it when you've calmed down, and if you really do love him ( im only assuming you do) then its gonna realy suck to loose him

i lost my girlfriend of a year and a half, and i havnt gone more then an hour without thinking back to the better times, and missing her more then anything

 

i can't smoke anymore cuz when i do i get worse then this

smoking doesn't make me chill it makes me paranoid as fuck

 

give him 15 min & he'll turn it on, bt whenever ya do get ahold of him, start calmly & without arguing, just say sorry i accidently hung up & tried ya back but couldnt get through

a cool off periods a good thing, lets you start the conversation off again on the right foot without hot tempers.

most of all relax, or else the momment u get through the argument will start up again hotter then ever..

 

i wish i had this advice when i fuck up relationships.

 

its been like a half hour

i can't calm down i am having an extremely difficult time cuz

this hasn't happened to me before, and i haven't been this paranoid since the last time i got high like a month ago

 

i bet he just went to sleep he did sound kind of tired on the phone

hes probably gonna be mad when he wakes up to 10 voice mails and 100+ texts, good thing he has free texting

=[

 

wtf DO NOT TURN TO DRUGS

seriously, if you're depressed dont turn to drugs . it will build a dependency. you're gonna have to do this sober.

go to his place and talk things over?

 

^ prob with this is:
A) it is 2 AM
B) have no ride, and by then time i could walk there it will be morning already
C) i'm 15 so i legally cannot drive
D) his psycho mom would flip shit, which is why i am not calling his house phone

and i have no drugs

but thank you swazo i hadn't even thought of that

BTW, how old are you and are you a dude or a chick? i always imagine you as that old dude in your sig which i know cannot possibly be you

 

also, there is a relationship forum, if ya wanna know how to get stoned this is the place to be, but for relationship advice the relationship forums a far better place to try (as long as you know how to filter out odviosly bad advice, for some reason some people with totaly disasterouse relationships feel like theyre the greattest at giving others advice..lol)

ya left 10 messages, ya cant do no more, so...dont... sit back & relax & let things play out as they will, tomoro is a new day

 

2 am..yup he thought the convo was over & went to bed


really let the argument die, dont bring it up again, apologize for freaking & leaving all the texts, but thats it, if anythinmgs unressolved from the argument, let him bring it up, but refuse to get into a fight again, just keep it a simple conversation, seeking solutions, instead of a back & forth aggressive attemot to "win" an argument

 

well i've calmed down for the most part, sorry about my ranting

thank you everybody