Hi I am 33 and I never had sex with any girl.In fact i dont have any girlfriend. I have been masturbating since I was 10.Now I find it difficult to ejaculate.My hands starts to pain but I cant ejaculate easily even after a gap of 2 days!! I am single still . Have I become impotent?
No. Impotence refers to an inability to get a usable erection. I assume you get hard, but have difficulty cumming? Maybe try waiting longer than two days. Drink more water. If that doesn't work, I would suggest seeing a urologist. Good luck!
Physical stimulation is only part of sexual activity. It can be mainly to do with the mind. Even hospitals provide porn videos & magazines whenever a man is required to provide a sperm sample to help get him aroused. Mental stimulation can also increase the actual sperm count. If you haven't done so already, find yourself something that gets you turned on. It doesn't have to be basic porn - many people find reading written erotica more stimulating - personally I often like to write it, as this can be a physical way of holding me back & making my sessions last out (available for reading here). You state that you have never had sexual contact with a woman, but is this a matter of choice or undetermined sexuality? After all, everyone is Bi-Sexual, falling at different points on the sexuality scale - perhaps you have more of an inclination to men. If so you could easily find yourself a sexual partner one one of the online Swinger sites, such as Adult Friend Finder or Silver Daddies (both of which are ones that I have regular success with). I've come across men who have had similar problems, but when they get to have sex with another man, often for the first time, they can get so sexually excited that they climax sooner than they're used to, with much stronger orgasms.
Hate to sound treasonist, but maybe you're not into women and should try men. Great advice, Pineman! If you can get it up and hard, something is psychologically deficient. Agreed! Try some professional help, unless you don't care, in which case forget it. Oh, I just thought...you aren't being treated for depression are you? These modern pills in that area play havoc with your libido! Docs never tell you that, you have to find out for yourself. That's why the teen suicides. Death over a lifetime of no sex! Can't blame them.
i suggest u take off jacking it for a while--like a month--let your guy take a vacation-so it can heal
You really need to stop, seriously. give it a rest for a few months. I honestly have to say when that day comes you finally have sex and you don't come the girl is going to think your gay. Before I met my gf I was lovin the mags and movies on a daily basis. Bad idea because when I met her she couldn't me off..... (we weren't having sex then) I had to do it. She got tired. The only time I did anything sexual was when I was with her. It took damn near 3 months for me to get accustomed to how she would jerk/suck me. Now if I go longer than a week without doing anything with her I will not last more then 2 minutes if I'm really turned on. Give it a rest dude.....
Try edging, and I guarantee you'll get your mojo back. You can read about it on this page... http://tinyurl.com/cwqz7e
Viagra is only to help with erectile disfunction. By all accounts, this poster has no problems maintaining an erection - just reaching an orgasm. I have a similar problem, but at least with me I know the cause - I am epileptic, and it's a known side effect of the medication I'm on. Most anti-depressants & cardiac beta blockers also have the same effect if you are on any of these. Furthermore, needless to say, long term abuse of recreational drugs can also lead to the same sort of sexual disfunction.
