Please describe your first anal experience for girls or guys What was the mood setting and/or prep for doing anal? Do you shower before hand? Is it in the heat of the moment? Does it hurt the first time? My wife said we could try it if I did the whole romancing and went the xtra mile.....looking for some input
My first wife and I got married when I was 18 and she was 20. For our honeymoon we travelled all around the west coast. One night we were sleeping outside, sleeping bags zipped together, on this completely deserted beach. We were spooning and I began to fuck her from behind--something we'd done often enough before. I licked my fingers and touched her asshole while we screwed and she started moaning in a way that was very encouraging. So I added some pussy juice to the mix and got a finger going in and out. Pretty soon I pulled out of her **** and pressed my wet cock up against her asshole. She went very still. I thought she was going to tell me to stop. But she arched her back a little and positioned herself better. I didn't want to hurt her, so I went really slow, gradually pushing the head of my cock inside her. "Oh, God," she said. "I've been waiting for you to do that." So I gently fucked her ass for a little while, hardly going in at all. I didn't come that time, but I did when we got a little better at it.
My first anal experience was a pleasant surprise from my wife. We have been married for 30 years and she has always been open to experimenting with sex. She had occasionally put her finger up my ass while giving me oral and I had told her it felt pretty darn good. One night wile giving me oral, she suddenly slid a well-lubricated dildo up my ass and proceeded to fuck me with it while continuing the blowjob. This resulted in a mind-blowing organsm and she said I cummed harder than she had ever seen before.
Guitarcat, that was such a beautiful romantic story! Wild & Crazy -- I was thinking about doing this to my boyfriend, but I'm scared it will make him want to get the real experience with guys. After you experienced that have you been thinking about having a male-male experience?
It was with my ex girlfriend i was 18 and she was 15 i remmber the funny thing is when my dick was all inside her ass for the first time (this was my first time i fuck) i cum inside her ass , loool so it take from me 2 min i was finish
Although I have no experience with this, you should know that there is a difference between being gay, and enjoying anal stimulation. Many, many straight people enjoy anal stimulation, while some gay people do not like it, and stick with oral and what not. They are mutually exclusive, it won't cause him to switch sexualities. It's the feeling he likes, and alot of that will be because it's you doing it .
If you take it to fast she won't like it and not want to do it again . Let her just get used your fingers with a lot of lube and don't and after a few times slowly insert your penis and don't try to cum till she is really comfortable with a lot of movement . A small anal vibrator would be a good way to start her to get use to it and you can feel the vibration during sex and make you cum harder . Experiment on yourself to find out what is to much and it helps when you masturbate .
[FONT="]I’ve been married to the same woman for a very long time. Our sex life has always been interesting, plenty of oral for both of us. My wife swallows my cum with pleasure and I love eating her out. I always try to give her ass a lick. If her legs open wider, then I know she wants a good rimming.[/FONT] [FONT="] [/FONT] [FONT="]We watch lots of porn of all kinds including straight, gay, and interracial, always with the emphasis on anal, since I pick all the porn. I’ve been sticking a finger in her ass for years. About 6 or 7 years ago I bought some butt plugs, 2 small ones and 2 large ones. We would use them on each other. (I’ve always been anally inclined.) It was about 3 years ago when my wife had a revelation. Our larger butt plug was as big around as my prick. One night, in the mad passionate throes of making love, she told me to put my dick in her ass. I did, gently and lovingly, with lots of lube. She never said stop, no matter what was on her mind. We did it with her on her back, missionary style. I came in her ass and she told me that she had one of the most intense orgasms she had ever had.[/FONT] [FONT="] [/FONT] [FONT="]After that, we tried it doggy but she wasn’t at all comfortable. I prefer missionary any way so she can play with my nipples while I’m fucking her. I never ask for it but if that familiar little pillow that she likes to put under her ass is close by, I know that she’ll be asking for a good assfucking. Whenever we do anal, I always cum in her ass. We do anal at least 50% of the time if not more, always because she wants it.[/FONT][FONT="][/FONT]
Synful No, having a relationship with another guy has never crossed my mind. But, my wife continues to play with my ass. I have given her anal with my fingers, a small dildo, and the head of my dick; but she simply does not like it. She has a very small and tight asshole and said it makes her feel like she is going to poop and simply asked me not to try it anymore with her. She has never gotten a "good" feeling from anal. We have been married for over 30 years and I respect her feelings and am not going to mess up a great sexual relationship that we have. W & C guy
My first anal experience was only a few years ago, shortly after I first branched out & made my fantasies a reality by having sex with other men. My first few experiences with other men were limited to mutual masturbation & oral, but then I agreed to try anal. I curled up tight in doggy position on the edge of the bed, while he stood on the floor & entered me from behind. I found the initial entry of the glans to be difficult & uncomfortable, but once he was past that point, the remainder of the shaft became a lot easier. As soon as penetration was complete I realised what was so special about it as his penis started to press against my prostate. Curiously enough, despite the arousing thoughts of what was happening, I last my erection as soon as he penetrated me, but even so, with the level of direct stimulation I was getting to the prostate I felt as if I was having one perpetual orgasm, until I finally ejaculated, with absolutely no contact to my still flaccid penis, yet the orgasmic sensation I was experiencing continued right up until he climaxed himself & was forced to withdraw. Unfortunately, my over generous girth makes it difficult for me to achieve penetration as a top most of the time, and even when I do, the bottom is unable to take it long enough for me to reach anywhere near an orgasmic level, but for the time it remains penetrated, the additional tightness of the anus over simple vaginal sex can make things far more physically pleasurable.
Mr. Writer. Oh I know that. Notice my post doesn't use the word gay. I'm just thinking if I man likes that sensation, they'd wanted to experience the powerful pounding from a man -- which is far more than I can provide with a dildo. I think one can explore sex with same gender without being gay. I know I"m new here so you don't know me. But I'm very liberated! :cheers2:
Great. Now I can move forward with my plan! (I didn't want him seeking something with someone else that was more powerful than I could provide). Thanks.
