Since you started reading, have you noticed any improvement in language/culture/depth in personality or something? I'm asking this because I would like to know what advantages reading has, I mean, I already know them but I would like to know if you guys/gals feel any different or something... For example, my memory hasn't precisely improved or anything, vocabulary yes, culture not so much and I really can't say that I'm a more interesting person now than before, since people don't talk that much about books. One last thing, I feel kinda weird asking this but... hehe: Did reading ever help you pick someone up from the opposite sex? Like, movie scenarios "I was having breakfast and reading my book when...". I know it's weird that I'm asking this but I guess I would like to know if reading helps you connect with someone on a romantic level. I read to have more culture, memory and vocabulary, and sometimes I get hold of a very good book which I end up enjoying a lot, but I rarely talk about books. I'm very interested in knowing your answers and your experiences, thank you for reading.
I've loved reading since before I was old enough to read, so I have no idea if reading has improved any elements of my personality. I have actually connected with a couple of romantic interests over books. I became totally hot for this one guy after I found out we liked the same writers. Thats just like any other common interest though. If two people really like music, they're going to bond over music. If two people really like literature, that will be one of their bonds. I think books have always made me a more interesting person. Its not about talking about books, its about talking about the thematic elements within the book. Reading books inspires critical thinking, which in turn inspires a more interesting and well-rounded person. Reading nonfiction especially always gives you good conversation pieces. In terms of taking what you learn from books and applying them to life, its less about the book itself and more about the lessons you can take from the book.
I'm not sure, as I have been hoarding books since I first learned to read. I have a rich vocabulary and good verbal and writing abilities. I would say reading has helped enhance these traits.
