just found this article on my homepage http://au.news.yahoo.com/080406/2/16ds9.html what are your thoughts on this? i reckon its really really wrong, what is the baby gonna think when it grows up, massive wtf
I don't care what other people do or if they decide to fuck their relatives... 'wrong' is relative... and seeing as they are not hurting anyone else... why stop/criticise their actions? I wouldn't do it personally... because i don't feel atracted to my relatives... and even if i was i wouldn't because the social stigma is too much to bare... but if that father and daughter want to... then good for them. Also... any grievence the child has while growing up (due to social stigma) is societies problem and not his/her parents... if the child is fit and healthy then any criticism is just ignorant hatred.
I'd be concerned about genetic problems coming from incest, but other that that he didn't raise her, so she really isn't his daughter. He was just the sperm donor, really. She is old enough to make her own decision about this, and I guess she doesn't mind that he wasn't there for her. My father raised me and the thought of oh yuck I just grossed myself out...uke:
i think people have the right to do whatever they want, but i feel that is just wrong. social stigma or not, that kid is gonna have issues, and i just can't see how that is ok. even if i never knew my dad and he turned out to be brad pitt, i would not ever have a sexual relationship with him. maybe if she didn't know he was her dad, but she did, and i think that is a line that shouldn't be crossed.
i dont really care, but in my opinion it is wrong. we were not meant to breed with our close family. blech!
same here i don't thing that the stigmata of society's right and wrong bullshit ideals will be as harmful to the child than say autism....
Tell me about it, they do! I heard it on the radio today, I mean I'm a South Australian, we are not all like this.....I swear we are not all like this! Definition of confusion: Father's Day in Mount Gambier! lol
That poor baby. That poor innocent child. I hope someone steps in and looks after it. EDIT: Man, I thought the Oedipus story was a myth. But at least he lost his mind when he found out. Does anyone want to find out this guy's address and send him a letter? "Dear Sir, The only correct thing for you to do is claw your eyes out and wander the earth in shame. Love, Random Thoughts Forumers"
Probably that's where the congenital heart disease came from - genetic problems. And yes, the 30 years that they haven't seen each other does not make her really his daughter. It's a lot different than the father-daughter relationship in many families where the father raises his daughter and they see each other everyday. I personally couldn't do such a thing... and I admit, it is shocking and gives you a feeling that something's not ok in there, but if they are happy this way, it is their life after all... She is an adult and the relationship goes on with her consent, so...
'the 30 years that they haven't seen each other does not make her really his daughter' ...Excuse me ? Yes, it does. For God's sake they are family. A father and a daughter. Nothing can change that. In my humble opinion, this kinda relationship is sick and twisted. Okay, what kinda father could develop such feelings towards a woman that he knows is his daughter ? The mere fact that she is his daughter should put him off. However, it doesnt. Isnt that weird ? Disturbing ? Wrong ? I mean, what must be going on in his head that makes him able to forget the fact that he's in a relationship with his daughter ? That I would like to know. Same goes for her. Dont give me crap like : As long as they're happy....And its their life.... Theres something seriously wrong here.
Just reading about it makes me sick...whats the world coming to :\ And they expect us to be "understanding" of their "relationship"?