I've been waiting and waiting and waiting for the right girl to come along and I think I might have finally found her. I met this girl about a year and a half ago but havent talked to her in about 6 months. Well, the other day I decided to shoot her a message and since then we've been texting. I'm supposed to go and hang out with her Sunday and Monday and I can't wait. I've had a crush on her for a while and when I told her about he she said she had one on me as well so I couldnt be happier.
Alright dude, first off good stuff! Secondly, don't seem quite as happy as you are when you meet her. Be nice to her and show interest of course... but if you act too into her too fast it'll come off as desprate. Girls can smell that a mile away. Trust that I know...
Sometimes we walk right by someone who could be a friend, not knowing what we were missing. You and me both! I am glad you didn't take too long for a second look at things. Good decision! Enjoy each day with no worry about whether you will get serious someday. Either way it will turn out okay. The questions that seem so hard to answer right now usually become very easy to answer as you understand one another better. I am celebrating with you. Enjoy!
Aww it's so nice when that happens. The warm feeling you get when you think about them, how things you look at all have a nice sheen to them. I hope it goes well
Update: this was a disaster, the girl is apparently some kind of slut or something because I went over there and she told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. A little bit later she said her friend was coming over and I was like, "okay that's cool." So her friend comes over and she introduces me to him and says that he's her boyfriend so I'm like Not only did she just break up with her boyfriend but this dude that came over was her ex's best friend. I don't really want anything to do with some chick that breaks up with someone and then goes out with their best friend the next fucking day. I knew it was too good to be true and I should've just avoided the whole situation, but I didn't and had to deal with that whole akward situation... I couldn't get out of there fast enough. I'm not having a good week.
Well, it's best you learned the truth about this one before you got serious. The right girl's probably somewhere close, you just have to be patient.
Dmob, She seemed like a good person so you offered her your friendship. I would have done that too and I don't know any other way to success in life. I am sure that she has some good qualities that attracted you to her, but her problems turned out to be too big to ignore. You did the right thing again by moving on. Take a rest if you need to, then keep your eyes open for someone who is what she seems to be and gives as well as receives kindness and love. As you continue through life showing kindness, you attract more positive people to yourself than losers.