Hey people, Question (which is genuine)..... How do you find a girl who likes anal? Wouldnt be good if you was dating a girl and asked her after a few months if she does and she says no, so how do you find one in the first place to prevent any problems later? Cheers!
RE: Backdoorman, Lol, true, he'll post soon. If you don't want to wait on answers, or want other opinions, search the forums - the question isn't new. But given the subject, you'll get some chatter here. IMO, it's better to find someone you're a fit with and then broach the subject of your tastes early in the relationship. Finally, if you find someone who's open to exploration, but hasn't tried it, "Arouse Her Anal ecstacy" was a pretty good read to help you get started introducing her to it.
Ho's tend to like anal, as in chicks who do stuff for drugs, money, fame, etc. etc. as well as strippers, never met on that didn't mind! Also you may have to train chicks to like anal, however most gf's i've had fear it like its the plague. Your best bet with a chick who fears it is to find one of her friends who doesn't mind or likes it. Whenever you find a chick who doesn't like something you do its best i've found to tell her to talk with her friends about it. Although sometimes this backfires. Another thing, do it when there drunk, they won't mind half as much. And another thing, find a girl that's so hot and connected to you that it doesn't matter what they do. If she loves you she;ll try it hahaha!
Excellent. Thanks for the replies guys. Keep them coming. Yeah, was thinking if your out having a few drinks and you see this girl you like, you wonder would she like anal, is it worth getting into a relationship with her and seeing her and then find out she doesnt like it. Thats why I was wondering if there was any shortcuts lol to finding a girl who you could pretty much assume 80% of the time would be up for it. Doesnt have to be every day or week, but a few times a month sounds good.
ya piranha I told you ho's and strippers lol I mean i'm all done with those types but if your young and wanna fuck around ya know... who cares if there not into anal, if you want it bad enough i'm sure you could some how sneak it in once a month. Tell them they've been doing it wrong that's why ti hurt so much. I'm interested if there is a way though to know anything sexually about a women before dating her. I mean if you get her drunk enough you could hint at it and it would probably be fine.
lol, yeah some vaild points ther. Your only 26 and you say: I mean i'm all done with those types but if your young and wanna fuck around ya know... lol who young are you talking hehe
i've had a guy tell me straight out 'i have two rules. she's gotta shave and she's gotta take it in the ass' might not work for everyone though lol.
Just a tip here, if you say the right things you can make almost any girl want to try almost anything with you.
Truth. So long as they are not a selfish person by nature - but those people are bad partners in general anyways.
After reading some of the other posts on here, there does seem to be alot of girls who like anal and do it regulary. I didnt think they exsisted, more fool me eh? I have been told that Emo, Goths, Punk and Alt girls are more kinkier than most and will do Anal, but its finding them and then been accepted by them. Hence my question is there other girls who like it where to start looking I was also told Russian Girls beg you to do Anal with them, but it's getting to Russia lol to see if thats true, so yeah I find it very supprising that there is quite a lot of females on here who love anal....good for them I say, just wish I was dating one of you lol.
But see, I think you might be missing something here. Every girl who likes anal tried it for the first time some time. Maybe your challenge isn't to find a girl who already likes it- maybe your challenge is to get really good at it so every girl who tries it with you loves it. I mean, I'm not Emo, Goths, Punk, Alt or Russian, and I love anal. (I'm suggesting stereotypes won't work) But the guy I tried it with told me he was really good at anal (super patient and slow to start) and he was right. It was great, and I'm hooked. I want it every time now. So, I really think confidence and skill on your part can go a long way towards making an anal believer out of a girl you might actually like.
Thanks for the reply. And nice to see a girl chatting openly about it as a reply to me question. Yes you make some valid points, the problem I have found is alot of girls seem to not like it, say its gay or it would hurt or make any excuse to not do it and so I do understand what your saying but some girls (the ones I have met) dont seem to do it or like it. This is why I needed some guidence on what girls do lol. I have tried looking on the net for girls who are single near me and like it but most sites are paid for sites (require a fee to join up) and its choosing one which will work, so many out there. I needed a down to earth answer from genuine and friendly people, which is why Im here
:iagree: There's wisdom here. Additionally, you're not going to be happy, long term, with someone who's into the same things you are sexually, if they're not anything like you in other ways. You're set up for failure. I'd go hunting for people who were like me, who had similar interests, who I was well matched with, and then broach the subject of "variety in sex" very early. If you're going to chase someone you probably won't like, just because they're likely to be in to anal, you might as well fly to nevada and pay for it. You're in for less headaches.
Go to the t-shirt making shop on the block and get a white t-shirt and have the words printed in "im trying to find a good girl who likes anal" You might get more results than you can handle.