finding free lovers

suppose i wanted to meet someone new, outside of my circle of friends, and have a sex-only arrangement with them. a fuck buddy. how do you other free lovers find your mates?

smart ass answers are welcome here because i know i'll prob get em.. but actual advice is the real intent here haha

 

MY FUCK BUDDIES HAVE INCLUDED, COWORKERS, MY SECRETARY, CLIENTS, WIFE'S FRIEND, (ALL RISKY SITUATIONS) AND SOME BROADS i MET ONLINE, SO I MAY NOT BE THE BEST TO GIVE ADVICE...

BUT I GUESS THAT IF YOU WANT TO MEET NEW PEOPLE, YOU MUST DO NEW THINGS AND GO TO NEW PLACES, OTHERWISE, IT WILL BE THE SAME OLD SAME OLD...

 

Kijiji sucks....you will only get spam...don't ask how I know this

 

heh thanks for the heads up bbad

i thought about the online option but i'm too chicken. not trusting enough.

 

Ask Google how to find a fuck buddy. You'll a great many ideas. This best is to keep making dates and ask them if they'd like to be your fuck buddy.

 

I live in a small town, that's kinda the problem.
thanks for the ideas guys.
bthiz, i do a lot of other things to try to use the energy and have fun but when you're horny you're horny.

so do you just come out and say you only want sex? like i guess my fear is getting a bad rep or giving the wrong impression .. i don't sleep around like crazy and random, ya know?

plus i did post something on craigslist out of curiosity like a year ago, got 50 some replies without even posting my pic online but all the dudes were either shady or very unattractive.

 

whats the point of this web site?? pttf..

 

True enough....it's only natural. I don't know if it'll help, but when ever I get "in the mood" and it's strong enough that I cannot shake it I create some form of art. I think it has something to do with the fact that a sex drive is just our instincts telling us we need to reproduce (essentially create), so creating art becomes not only a mental orgasm at that point but a physical one as well.

Yea the internet is probably your most viable option, but it's sketch as fuck. I don't really know how you could give the wrong impression...when the entire purpose is to fuck....I mean what impression are they going to get other than the fact that you want to have sex?

Like I said though, this isn't my are of expertise.

 

Well I still appreciate your thoughts
thanks for your advice.

 

like I said ,, who fucking cares..

 

huh

 

I'll volunteer.

 

well thanks except there's a significant distance between us haha

 

We seem to both be in the northern hemisphere. Thats enough for me

 

haha
any reason for 1? just curious

 

Ahh okay I understand.
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Well unfortunately I can't really give information on how to find people, I'm open really, though random instances would be a first for me. Under normal circumstances I've only had sex with 2 women and aside from that I don't actually give a damn about sex in the slightest. Not sure distance between us though, I'm actually in Maryland.

 

On a complete side note for everyone. I hate Maryland. lol.

 

Similar experiences for me, too. (I'm too old and too far away from you, so I'm not hitting on you myself.) Frankly, I'd just like some fun, uncomplicated intimancy, skipping all the mind games and emotional ties. I've been single for years, and guess I've settled into that lifestyle. I mean, I'm willing to be in a relationship, but it seems like all the women I meet (45-55) are so incredibly needy that they want a financial committment and all sorts of moral statements. Sex, for me, is mostly pleasure, and it's actually a blast satisfying a woman as much as myself.

I've tried going the Adult Finder and Craigs List routes, and all I got was spammers, professionals, and sleezy gold-diggers. There must be a few "nice girls" out there who'd like a good roll in the hay with an "experienced," clean guy who isn't a drunk or a flake.

I live in Port Orchard, Washington (near Seattle) in case there are any takers or suggestions.

 

Thanks for relating with me. I hope you find someone to romp with soon you're right, there's gotta be someone out there..
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