Hello all This weekend will mark a major milestone in my sexual career, my first threesome with two girls. Understandably this is probably by far the #1 male fantasy, and definately one of mine. However, i need some advice from those people who have had this experience once or more in their life. First, some information. I have only been seeing this girl for a week or so, we have had sex a few times and it was great. She is only 19, her freind in question is 35, and I'm 24. You may think 19 is young, but believe me she is very mature for her age. I have no intention on any relationship with her, we are just 'fuck' buddies if you will. She understands this. I think she is BI, but I cant be entirely sure, i think she wants to do this more for the experience. What i'd like to know is: *where do we start? e.g - do i let them start it off? *when it begins, should i just go with the flow, or assume some authority over the whole experience? *should i talk to my girl about what will happen beforehand? *should i talk to the other girl about what will happen beforehand? *should i kiss the other girl, even if my girl sais its ok? *how long should i have sex with the other girl for? *is alcohol a good idea? (not too much of course) Thanks 4 your time
I would strongly suggest you and your GF decide beforehand to focus on her friend. My 3somes have been far better when one of the people is the general focus. Dont sweat it if you dont get to be the luctky recpient, if you give it all you've got, you'll likely be rewarded again with round 2 and 3, as you all take turns at being the center of attention. Just my two cents...... have fun!!!
I am a bit leary of this situation, especially if you don't know for sure if one or both of the girls is actually Bi or not and you have only been seeing your girlfriend for a week or so. You should never get involved in a threesome with anyone you were not willing to have sex with in a one on one and that goes for your girlfriend too. It is a good bet you are going to have a train wreck on your hands afterwards. Start with your girlfriend, make her the center of attention and at least intially avoid contact with the other girl until you are sure how your girlfriend is going to react to her boyfriends dick in another pussy. Unless your girlfriend is a submissive, I'd let her direct the fun, let her set the boundaries and you should abide by those boundaries. Oh yes, in fact all three of you should get together and discuss is beforehand together, this comes back to the boundaries thing. Yes, see above. I would avoid it the first time out. Assuming your girlfriend does not freak out, as long as it takes to make sure everyone get their fair share. Normally I like a couple drinks before hand, it lowers inhibitions and relaxes everyone, but in this case I have to say its not a good idea. You don't want anyone getting regrets later and blaming it on the booze, if everyone is completely sober then you can always say "You could have said no at anytime.".
