Well here's the deal... I haven't been on a true date before..I have hooked up with a few girls with just hanging out and it happening- But I haven't exactly planned a night out- of taking a girl out on a date. Tommorrow night- Friday - I am going on a double date with this girl...My best friend is how I met her, and he's bringing a date as well and it's just going to be us 4. We are probably going out to eat and end up at my friends house afterwards. Now I know I don't have to worry about any kind of sexual activity- she's not that kind of girl. But kissing is deffinitly in the question... My question is what can I do to let her know I want to kiss her. Should I ask her, can I kiss you? Or should I kind of just move in and kiss her without saying anything- and without her consent? Someone give me a few "moves" to use!!!??? Another question is - Would hats be rude? I usually don't wear hats, but my hair is so short to the point where I look pretty stupid. Would I look retarded wearing a hat on a date? We are only 16 years old- so it's not like a formal date or anything- But it is a more then a friend date. Is wearing a hat to a date rude or wrong? After the date we go home and blah blah...Do I try to talk to her tonight after the date? Should I text her or IM her if she's online and talk to her the night of the date? Should I wait a day, or should I wait two days, or what? Assuming we have kissed and the date went well, how many days should I wait before I talk to her again, if ANY at all? Thanks for the help in advance everyone!
Moves, moves... okay, well, if she gets horny and won't take no for an answer, poke her in the eyes. Hard. Yes, wearing a hat on a date is rude. I mean seriously. It's in the rules. As to when you can talk to her again, it depends on the base system. You get to first base, you can talk to her again in four years. Second, two years. She sucks you off one year, you bump uglies, six months. Hope that helped.
don't ask to kiss..seems desperate even though she'll say yes just wait till the time seems right after someone says something cute and then when ur lookin in each others eyes, make the move...she'll go for it and if its the perfect kiss it'll lead to more don't wear a hat unless ur hair isnt working for you, or u go on a cheaper date (fast food or something atheltic and outdoors) if the night seems like it went well then its no problem to call her the next day...too many guys work the 3 day thing but then the girl is waiting too long if she had a great time...i say the night after or the 2nd morning after. good luck
