lets say hypothetically that i am rapidly falling deeper and deeper in love with a woman that will remain unnamed at this time. and she is, hypotheticaly, very rapidly falling in love with me. Is it bad for me to continue flirting with every woman on these forums? i dont want her stomach to start turning at everyone of my posts and feel like im an a-hole and dont care about her feelings (especially cus i dont say those things to her), but ive been single most my life so habits are real hard to break.
no, im hypothetically too afraid to bring the subject up. and im also hypothetically hoping that 6 or 7 girls dont answer this thread "no i dont mind".
stiring jealousy is ugly, if you really like her, i would stop. or you could ruin a good thing. Sorry i didnt give the answer you wanted i'm sure but i myself really hate it when a guy i really care about, and he says he cares about me, but goes about flirting like crazy with every girl that walks by. It really is painful actually.
Flirting is fine only when you're an established couple with a steady, monogamous relationship. When it's up in the air, don't do it.
I think that so long as you let her know what you're doing and why, and she says she's ok with, it should be fine. I mean, you obviously don't mean anything by flirting with internet girls if you're in the midst of falling in love with someone else - so long as she is aware of that, and then lets you know whether or not it's ok... that's the point from which you should make your decision, I think.
yeha i should talk direct to her about it. im a lil worried though that if i stop flirtin, then ill start writin about sometin else in the forums, then girls might really start to like me, that would be dangerous. i gotta find a new way to scare them away!
I agree totaly here. And if you want to scare girls off still, try wearing a monster mask or, if they're at all like me, try telling them you want a serious commitment and maing plans for the future and calling alot, that should send them screaming
yeeeeeeahh riiiiiiiight . .. works every time huh? id never be able to keep em away if they knew someone else saw somthin in me. all this very hypothetical of course.
Well, smartass, try taking the "endowed" bit out of your profile. That kind of says, "DO ME!!!" Dork.
Ok, we're all Serious now: It pays in the long run to exchange/agree on the definitions of 'flirting' v. 'interacting' w/the opposite sex. This may sound silly but it's amazing how much chaos/other mean n nasty things can result from this elementary failure to communicate...
well i just talked to her, hypothetically of course, and the smart lil girl that she is, kind of didnt mind, as long as it wsa just flirting, but i told her i'd stop anyway. that scored me some bonus points!! i cant believe how this is makin me feel and sound like a little kid again. im gonna go play some guitar to calm down!
