Forced Kissing

This thread was so interesting, i think i'll wake it up!

 

Nepenthean is one of those posters who loves to get a kick out of upsetting people by posting something very controversial anonymously. In a way he succeeded by provoking everyone the way he did. I imagine he believes himself to be more intelligent than most posters here, and that by logic and verbal trickery he can run circles around the contributors here to make their frustration build.

It is true that some women like to be kissed without explicit approval: guys with a solid game don't need to ask for permission to kiss. They base their decision on how the woman communicates nonverbally. It is also true that women are fascinated by "bad boys" because they tend to have socially dominant personalities and a lot of testosterone. Liking bad boys, however, has nothing to do with wanting to be raped, as these are two separate issues.

Nepenthean may very well be a loner sitting behind his computer, getting satisfaction because he can garner some attention for himself in no other way. My guess is that he is a genuine misogynist who may have suffered emotionally with his experiences with women (possibly through rejection); and whether or not he follows through with what he writes in this forum in real life, his ideas show a degree of hatred for women he probably feels inside.

 

Are you joking? What are more personal attacks going to do for this thread? Why are you even addressing a person who's perhaps not worth addressing?

FYI, NOT all women like bad boys and it's a little insulting that you've made such gross generalizations regarding half the human population.

Back to the thread,
I do enjoy it when he asks sometimes - it shows that he's sensitive to me not wanting to be kissed at the time, and it shows that he's not a cocky son of a ___ lipsmacking whenever however whatever he likes.

It's an even greater turn on when a so-called alpha male with a "solid game", makes the effort to ask. If he's playing his game, I'll know. Back to the curb. Or I might play along.

Other times, I can appreciate a guy's confidence and ability to know what I want without words. It goes both ways, many times.

 

Funny that while you complain via electronic communication about my generalizations (never did I say all women like bad boys), some guys accused of murdering a homeless man in Ft. Lauderdale have female friends communicating with them and visiting them in jail, even those who broke off relations with them before they received national attention from the media. Somehow the murder and the media attention has stimulated their interest. One girl who was friends with these guys is disgusted by it all, though.

The article I read this morning quoted a psychologist who said this behavior by females is not unusual. Bad boys and bullies are typically rewarded with attention and sex from females.

Am I a bad boy or a bully? I don't think so. So what would I have to gain by fabricating all of this? While I don't like the psychologist's conclusions, he seems onto something.

 

well I suppose some people may find this exciting or whatever , but to me its a quick way to end up in hospital or court .

if I was the friend of someone and some guy came up and grabbed their hair and forced a kiss on them Id likely beat the crap out of them .

when I was about 16 I was in a nightclub and these 3 homosexuals tried to pick me up, I told them I wasnt interested in guys at all, but they kept on at me in the end I told them that if they didnt fuck off I would put a glass in their face .

anyway as I was leaving the nightclub one of them grabbed hold of me round the shoulders and I broke free and roundhouse kicked him (I used to be into the martials arts at the time ).

The whole experience gave me a lot of empathy for women being picked on in a simular situation.

This didnt make me hate homosexuals because these guys were just jerks and I dont think it had much to do with their sexuality, most likely if they were into women they would be the sort of people like the guy who started this thread .

 

You mentioned "women" and it's equal to "all women" personally. I understand what you're saying and thanks for sharing. There seems to be a trend - that is true. But I dislike being placed under a stereotype without any acknowledgement of minorities that frankly... can't stand the "bad boy".

I'm not so quick to adopt this behaviour as reasoning behind bizarre circumstances like the accused murderers in jail. How was the study conducted? Is there information being left out? Was the research done just to frame female visitors? What about their male friends?

How much more psychoanalysis are we willing to go through also? One could also do a study on women and compassion, women and nurturing, women and forgiving?

How have women visiting male convicts differed from women visiting female convicts? Or women visiting male and female patients in a hospital?

Are there generally more women visitors, period? There are many questions and I'm pretty skeptical when it comes to psychological research regarding human behaviour especially if it ends up affecting and encouraging inaccurate stereotypes that aren't necessarily healthy, to say the least. Naturally, what's healthy and what's not is a little subjective but those are just some of my thoughts.

 

HAHAH!

Honestly, I like it when a guy (my boyfriend, namely) grabs my face and kisses me, but I'm not sure that would be considered "forcing", as I WANT to kiss him--just aggresive behavior, I guess.

 

My fiance respects me enough to ask. And i respect him FOR asking. If someone i don't even know tries this, i can and have kicked their nuts through their teeth. I work in a rough bar in a rough town (full of bloody fishermen. two weeks at sea and they come back wild as fuck). When i first started work some blokes thought i was easy prey. They don't anymore. I don't even know if the original poster is still reading this, but if he is....Men who try to force me don't light a fire in my womb, they DON"T make me respect them and the WILL get very badly hurt. If a bloke tries this with me, i have problems with hitting them where it really hurts.

 

that is seriously disturbing and i understand dominance but forced anything is a big time no-no

 

Nepenthean

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there's just something about it that makes my knees go weak

 

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what you described sounds very hot to me... but there are some people who wouldn't like it at all, and you'd probably get slapped by some girls! ... so i suppose its all about personal preference.

i however, would like that alot!

 

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