It seems like a patern is forming. Women really like me, as a friend. None of them want to have sex with me, though. Just got pretty disapointed tonight. 2nd date (well, I thought it was a date) with some lady. Took her to a beautifull spot out in the woods where we could just talk. We were getting along wonderfully like usual. But she just didn't want to make out. Which is fine. She's still pretty damn cool and I enjoy getting to know her as a friend. But damn. It would be really nice to get laid every once in a while. What's going on here?
Someday you'll find a woman who likes you for you...but love sometimes starts out as friendship... I'm beginning to see it as being true as of lately.
people who I put in the friends category don't usually get moved out of there. Make sure your intentions are clear (you want to date, not be friends with) from teh start, otherwise you'll get jammed into the friend box
You must be damn ugly if you cant get laid out in a "beautifull spot out in the woods". Ha! Im so mean. J.J
Maybe you're focusing too much on sex and dating the wrong women for that. She might not want to be "just friends" but she may not want to rush into things, either. My advice is if you're into her, get to know her before you try to get into her pants. Don't go out with women expecting to get action, it's not fair to the girls you date (especially if you lead them to believe you have intentions other than sex), and you're going to be disappointed more than satisfied. My advice, get to know them, you might find a lifelong partner. If she said she wants to be just friends, then you can assume that, but unless she said that, she may be looking for something more than friends, but not sex. Just because she won't let you make out with her doesn't mean she doesn't want more than a friendship. Figure out if sex is all you want and if so, make sure your intentions are known, because you'll come out sounding even worse if you lead them on.
