I'm going out with this girl who's also bi and it's good there's no tension about that at all.For a change that's awesome not having to worry about being rejected and all.I know she's got trust issues but she just tunes out sometimes and it can be hard to hold a conversation sometimes.I know I give her nothing to be freaked about so I know it's not me.She's come around alot so far so that's a good thing.I talk alot so that's cool I don't mind I've always gotta lot to say anyway it's also nice to have someone to listen.Whenever she has something to say I'm always intrested asking questions and stuff.I just want to see her lighten up and be free of whatever's holding her back.She's not real happy with her life and I feel sad.I try to help but feel like I'm getting nowhere.I've even told her about this site hoping she'd get into some of the forums here that's a dead end.I know there's probably not much more I can do.She's not the love of my life or anything but I like having her around.We have good times too,it's not all bad.Just really frustrating having to deal with.I guess the choices are deal with it and have patience or leave her.I'll most likely stick around for awhile but has anyone else gone through this.How'd you deal with it?Did you get frustrated too?Did you leave?lol,What would you do??I just want to pull my hair out jeez!
sounds as though she's just being...well...a girl. i wouldn't think it has anything to do with you or your bi-sexuality, i once had a fling with a girl like that and it is extremely frustrating that they don't talk about things that you feel may be inhibiting them or making them feel sad. the things is though make sure you don't pressure her into talking about it otherwise it could exacerbate circumstances... but take assurance in the fact that she probably has some good reason as to why she is behaving the way she is. franzde
I'll just assume if she wants to talk she'll let me know.I've been surprised before so I guess it's not to big a deal.I never pressure her though I think that would be a bad thing too.It can be frustrating!Sometimes I feel like she's shuting me out I think that bothers me most.Thanks, *J
