Gangbang, cheating, confusion...

Hello

We had a gangbang with my bf (me, my bf and some other guy - lets call him X). It was fantastic but after that I cant stop myself from doing these stuff.

I had sex with X alone, without telling my bf (so i guess i cheated on him). That was the first time i did such thing.

Now I am seeing X sometimes a week and we have sex, and he wants to have an other gangbang with an other 2 friends of his. I am so excited about this but I know I have to stop seeing him and not have the gangang.

I know i became a total slut and i really enjoy it. But i really love my BF and I dont wanna hurt his feelings. On the other hand, i really wanna have a gangbang with 3 strangers.

What shall i do? Do it once? Tell my BF? Or stop fooling around and go back to my normal life?

 

More and more people want to have sex with others whilst in a relationship. Some are aware what the other half is upto and the other are not.
If you want to sleep with another person(s) without your bf knowing then go for it. What's the worst that could happen?

 

well the worst thing that could happen is hurt his feelings. i dont wanna do that. but this is a strange situation. I did cheat on him some times with the guy we had the gangbang. Now i am thinking of having a gangbang with this guy and some friends of his...

thanks for your answer

 

I'd love to meet a woman like you...

But seriously though, I really think you should break up with this boyfriend to explore your sexual desires. It sounds like you're young, so you have plenty of time to find true love later on when you're ready - and right now you are NOT ready for a relationship.

The only thing you just need to be careful with is who your partners are, and that you're not put into a situation that will do you harm. Make sure you know at least a little something about these guys. Ask to hold on to their identifications before you get involved with them, in case something very wrong happens. Then when it's over, giev it back. At least you'll know their names in case you wind up with some incureable disease... Not to scare you or anything.

 

well i am ready for a relationship, i just want to have some adventure. i am thinking of telling him the truth. if he is ok, then we can have more gangbangs together

 

i dont think so... we are about to have fun not take university exams!

 

Cheating is not right. I don't care who you are or what. You are in a relationship. You need to decide what you want. The other guy who you cheated with or your BF. You need to tell your BF. When you do TRUST will be gone. I know that from experience. You will be one lucky Girl, if he stays with you. So you just think of this. Your cheating on him had better been worth it, cause you might lose your BF. If you loved him you would have not have done what you done to him. It not right what you are doing and have done to your BF.

 

i know it is not right. it happened under strange circumstances though. I just needed some advice...

Anyway I am gonna tell my BF about it tomorrow

 

My gf and I just broke up last month after she was having gangbangs w/ 3 different dudes. True, we did have a long distance relationship and I did have sex w/ 3 different guys MYSELF that same weekend (separately), but after awhile I broke it off w/ her. I was not going to stand for being 2nd place in her life to those guys. I offered her a paid vacation here (from Europe) and she said she had to "think about it" (I should mention she has no job or any other reason holding her back at this time) I finally told her to fuck off !
Just so you know: Your bf might feel 'shelved' by your actions.
Incidentally, I wasn't really being a hypocrite by having sex w/ those other guys myself because I never put them (or anyone else) ahead of her.

 

Think about it for a minute... What if this escalates into more and more times, and you're still holding on to this boyfriend for all those years. And what if it came down to marriage... Are you two gonna be married swingers? Because that's what it sounds like IF he decides to stick around.

 

How bout you tell him what happened, break up with him and leave his life forever. Sounds like you owe him that much.

 

My bf seems to be ready to live some adventures like this. and we discussed in the past of having a free relationship (when he was horny only). i dont know what to do. I know the right thing is to tell him.

The thing is, when we had sex yesterday he was talking about gangbangs and free relationships... he seems to be ok with the idea, but i dont know how he will react if he learns that I have already done it...

 

I absolutely hate when someone is being selfish about their feelings, or tries to be sparing of mine by not telling me the truth or hiding it from me, because that just shows that the person is thinking of themselves and not respecting who I am or my feelings. So if you're going to keep this bottled up and not say anything to him, all you're doing is denying him the right to choose which path to take...

That's like winning the lottery with a dollar he gave you, and you not tell him about the winnings... Stop being selfish and tell him already. If he leaves you, then you'll have the freedom to do whoever you want without feeling guilty. Who knows, you two might get back togther later on in life when you're both ready for a relationship.

 

i will tell him

 

Just tell your boyfriend that one of the guys from the previous gangbang wants to do it again with some of his friends. Tell him you want to do and ask your boyfriend to join in.

I would love to have a girl friend like you that enjoys being gang banged and have all the sex you can get.

Good luck, and I would love to hear about your future gang bangs and other sexual activities.

 

confusing...

 

joetony69 this is a good idea... i might do that

 

I think describing your gangbang sessions in an ongoing post is a good idea. Just make sure you include as much detail as possible, and the ending(s).

I'd subscribe to that thread...

 

what ever you decide, good luck.. let us know the out come.




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i called him, we will talk tonight. I will follow your advice. Thank you very much. I hope this conversation will continue not with advice and problems, but with spicy details about my experiences...

Thanks a lot