I've been smoking mj regularily for about 16 years. My husband and I both smoke mj several times a day, but we want to start trying for a baby next month and I know I've got to give it up. I'd love it if he would give it up with me, but I doubt that's going to happen. I'm scared! I mean, I gave up smoking cigarettes and ended up smoking more weed to fill the void, so I feel like mj is all I've got!!!! Does anyone have any wise words, advice, ideas, etc. for giving up the ganja? I think a detox is in order here...I need to get my body baby-ready!!!!!!!!!:cheers2:
sex.. and lots of it.. whenever ya wanna spark a joint. just pull out your husbands cock and start suckin on it like a joint..
Giving up weed ofr mee is not very easy but when i have to do it i just never buy it or have it around so i never feel the urge to smoke it.. I also dont go out with my freinds when they smoke it so i dont feel inclined to do so... It helps and keeps me from going crazy.. I also seem to get a bad bigar smoking habit when im quiting weed
have you ever considered the profession of a guidance counselor or perhaps a couples' therapist, joker?
Lol i laughed at that, anyway i hope if you smoke cigarettes you smoke good ones.. if you even dare say you smoke those native made cigarettes so help me i will cut you... Export a gold are a very good cigarette IMO.. Or Du-maurieres
just taper down, bellystar. gradually scaling down how much you smoke makes it much easier. cold turkey sux even with harmless ol' mj. (don't listen to me but I think you're fine eating pot brownies on occasion while you're prego hehe)
Lol we have a different selection of cigarettes in the states though I definitely don't smoke often so I always buy good ones. I love me a Djarum Special, American Spirit, or Camel Filter.
I like camels but the smoke is defnitely harsher than other brands... Frankly id rather burn a flavoured cigar or something though they just sit right with me... Makes me feel classy
u dont need to give it up. just for the nine months that ur pregnant. after that smoke away=]. oh and thisisme. what kinna bud is that in ur quote thingy? it dont look to good to give it up get somebody who wont let u do it to bitch at u. for me. whenever i need a break i go to my dads. and he watch me like a fox. after two weeks i can control myself. or get a hobby
Its not amazing but it is definitely better than it looks in the pic.. Its considered beasters but they dont look good cuz their not very well trimmed with leaves and such on them... I have another crystal shot of one of the nugs on my photobucket thisisme5 so you can check it out if you want...
Thank you all for your sage advice I will try to taper down, I guess, as I was planning to. It does make it hard that my hubby's a chronic too so it's ALWAYS around. I just don't want to wait 'till I'm pregnant to quit but if that's what it comes to, so be it. I just want the best for our baby!!!!
Definitely a good call.. and if you dont mind me asking what city do you live in in ontario.. I live in ontario as well
Yea I think you can still toke here and there when your preganant, suppose to help with always feeling shitty and ill when preganant. Or make a batch a brownies. Also , isn't it harder to get preganant when the guy smokes weed, maybe its bullshit but I've always heard that. Also, have you really been smoking weed since you were 9? Thats crazy
I wouldn't be happy if I had to quit. I smoke 2-3 times a day usually (it dosn't seem like a lot becaue you're a stoner but really to normal people smoking that much every day is a lot).... Shit man maybe I'm addictted to weed. I can't imagine life without it tbh.
My suggestion would be to first cut down on the daily smoking to nights only at first. Do that for about a week or so and then move to every other day. Then Once or Twice a week and then none or once a week until you get pregnant. The baby does not share your blood for the first trimester so you have some time but when you find out your are pregnant then it is time to quit anyway. But what I am saying is you don't need to worry about it until you find out. Now for the rest of my advice. You need to start doing your Keigel excercises and right away. Here is a link for an example. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exercise . It will help you to have a smoother vaginal birth. Trust me you really really want to do this. Also keep up on the folic acid it will help you get pregnant faster and make the pregnancy more established. Also, if you are not already, start taking a multi vitamin and a calcium supliment. You should go to your OB and let them know you are trying to get pregnant and they may give you other advice. At the very least they will tell you what other supliments you should take. Now, in regards to your husband smoking. It is only fair that he cut down as well. Remember you are going to make this baby toghether. It's time he started to make a bit of a sacrifice as well. He does not have to quit like you do but he should cut down for your sake and the sake of the child. At the very least he should not smoke around you because it will make it harder for you. Tell him he just needs to do it for the next year and they you guys can start up again. But just keep in mind as well that with a baby around you are not going to want to be stoned all the time. Babies require a lot of attention and weed will have to be one of those things that you will have to cut back on. Also, if you plan on breast feeding then you need to stay off of the Ganja a little bit longer. Everything you ingest comes out in your breast milk, and Breast Milk is the best thing for a new baby. You should do so for at least three months if not six months to a year. Sorry to break it to you but you might not be able to smoke for a while. If you do smoke weed however while you are breast feeding then pump out and throw away the first batch after you do so.
