Gay men are annoying

yep I said it. I live with one and I can't stand it he brings someone new home every night. 10 of my dvds have come up missing and he is always on my fucking computer in my room when i get home from work.

 

Sounds like all gay men to me.

 

Why not just set up your computer so you need a password to login?


25 and female, why are you living with a gay guy?

I'd continue, but I don't think you are going to be honest with us as to the real reasons you moved in with him / let him move in

 

Well actually he is living with me and my wife because he got beat up by his b/f

 

He probably just wants to suck your cock. You should probably let him. You seem a little tense.

 

what's wrong with having roommates? i'm 26, female, gay, and i live as roommates with my straight guy friend. how is that any different? weird.

but miss 420 queen... sounds like a shitty roommate trait, not necessarily a gay man trait. if he's paying rent to you, you're his landlord, tell him what you expect of him. if he's paying rent to the same landlord as you are, then talk to him as roommates, password protect your computer, and ask him to maybe once in a while go to the other person's pad to do the one night stand thing. oh, and if he's not paying rent... tell him he needs to shape up or find another place to live. at least that's what i would do, personally.

 

Well, look at us making assumptions, i originally assumed without checking that MayQueen was a straight girl. Then when she said wife, Hoatzin assumed Mayqueen was a guy. And both of us probably bitch all the time about people stereotyping. I'll have a slice of that humble pie now thanks....

 

Gay guy aren't annoying, that guy sounds like he is. It's a little bit rude to bundle everyone into the same category isn't it!?

I could argue that gay women are a pain in the arse, but then I would be only talking about a friend of mine, and probably not every gay woman.

Your house, set some boundaries, if he breaks them tell him to fuck off.

 

Actullly if you said gay women are pains in the ass I as a gay woman myself would agree with you, hehe. We can be a bit difficult at times. But I didn't want to have to resort to rudeness to my roomie/best friend but nothing else is working so I am going to have to tell him he has three months to save money and find somewhere else to live, it's fucking with my chi

 

I see. Lesbians and gays really shouldn't get on, they have basically nothing in common. I'm amazed there aren't more fights in gay bars.

 

i find them most annoying when they all too typically play the role of professional victims and professional whiners. it's not about equal rights, but special treatment. they don't deserve to hog every color of the rainbow to themselves either. what do they really have to whine about? they get special laws in their favor to give them extra protections that heteros don't have. no offense, but some of the biggest examples of snobbery i've ever seen came from arrogant faggots. people who have ridiculously high hiv and aids rates have zero to be pompous about.

 

violent lovers quarrels are every bit as frequent amongst them as they are amongst straight people.

 

I meant between lesbians and gays, not between quarreling lovers.

 

Hahaha you fucking idiot.

 

I love gay women! They are so funny!!

Although on the whole we are completely different, we share on great thing in common- we all swing the wrong way. If only strait people knew how much fun it was, geez

In this case, sounds like just a class of personality me thinks.

 

idiot? so you're denying that lots of gays and lesbians are professional victims and whiners? obviously you've never met any before, i have though. seeing as how they get special protections by the law. what do they really have to whine about?

 

show me some medical evidence that they don't have ridiculously high hiv and aids rates. cough it up buddy or stop talking shit. try elaborating.

 

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Research figures are going to mean didly squat Elijah, dude that gets HIV from his secret boyfriend means he's going usually end things with the girlfriend / wife and pretty much now be in the "Gay" subcategory, whereas before he would have classed himself as Bi, and to the outside world it all would have looked hetero.

That is its not going to mean that much saying Gay guys are 3 time more likely to contract HIV if half of them werent exclusive gay in the first place. It may sound perdantic, but its annoying getting blamed all the time for stuff thats more about the half halfs

 

"Professional victims?" LMAO.

Not so. Its just that some people can be, and regularly are, victimised, abused, and even murdered purely for being gay. And a few risk being disowned by friends and family as well. Nobody is victimised or has to endure harassment purely for being straight, so stop being such an idiot.

And speaking of being an idiot, some parts of Africa have ridiculously high HIV/AIDS rates, and that is amongst almost exclusively straight people, so your point is? Yes, some gay people can be snobs, but then so can some straight people. There is not one single negative trait that you can say is exclusive to gays only. (And you certainly can't prove it) There are just as many straight idiots as gay ones. In fact more so, seeing as there's way more staight people than gay.

So he's an idiot, but that isnt because he's gay. A straight guy could also do those things you're describing, and I'm sure a lot do! When a straight person acts like a grade-A twat, you don't bring their sexuality into it, they're just a bad/idiotic person. If your roommate was straight, but acting in a similar way, you wouldn't say "Straight men are annoying" would you? Yet if you're gay it seems, every negative aspect of your personality is blamed on your sexuality, it's ridiculous! And I'm straight

 

Well, Ranking rules come before Sexuality, its just easier and in the end nicer for both sides to use sexuality as an excuse rather than admit ones own or spell out someone else's ranking.

Gay guy around a hotter straight guy, easier for the straight guy to act a little homophobic than say something like "Well, hell dude, even if I wanted to give it a try, I could do better than you"

Gay Guy around a less hotter straight guy, easier for him to let the straight guy make out its all about gay being icky than saying out loud "Even if you were gay, I wouldnt touch you"

And its pretty much the same in the straight world

Easier for a guy to call a girl stuck up or frigid than admit he's not hot enough for her.

Easier for a girl to make out a guy is a pig or sex crazed rather than admit she wouldnt be able to get him anyway

I think straight people are just as much defined by their sexuality as gay people. In your example above, no, you wouldnt hear girls say "Straight men are annoying, but you will hear them say "Men are annoying". As for the issues we face, In my opinion they arent as severe as the crap straight girls have to put up with