So people, my girlfriend just told me we should try anal for the first time here in a couple weeks. I am very excited but was wondering what am I in store for? Any quick tips? I feel like high-fiving everyone. :2thumbsup:
Lots of foreplay, give her ass lots of attention, and go very slow a big of discomfort is ok but if it starts to hurt, stop, and try again another day.
Introduce her to anal with pleasure. Eat her pussy while you play with her ass. Start with rubbing her rose bud in a circular motion use a lube too (my wife and I use coconut butter) try a finger in her ass while performing oral, go slowly and again lube. My wife still prefers just deep penetration as opposed to thrusting. I suggest just get a finger in and leave it in until she cums. You could curl your finger up to put pressure on her gspot through theanal/vaginal wall. You're a lucky fella that she is the one suggesting it. I suggest having her sit on you cowgirl or reverse cowgirl the first time she take cock up her ass. She can control the penetration easily. Don't expect the act of anal sex tto be like vaginal sex it will be slow at first, the penetration, thrusting and pulling out. It will take some experience before you'll be pounding her. If there is any pain stop and try again later. To fully understand what she could experience buy a bildo slightly bigger than your cock and try it on yourself. Not a bad thing either for you, prostate stimulation is awesome but that's another topic. Make her come with your cock in her ass and she'll ask for more. P.S. Have her masterbate while having anal, it is rare that women have orgasms from penetration alone. Hell you pat the man in the canoe for her. Good luck and enjoy. Share your experience with us, stories are appreciated.
Do not go from anal to vaginal without washing your penis first. That will cause a really nasty infection.
Yeah, its been a couple weeks now...has she done it? Best 'trick' when your partner is mind is open to it, is just to keep putting fingers up there during regular sex then eventually just ask to put it in there. She'll say yes.