getting some...

i need to get laid, damnit i'm feeling the urge here. shit its definately been too long.

 

Don't we all - is this the queue?

 

its not really a question i'm not even sure how discussable it is but its like i always feel like i need more sex when i'm stressed out more, does anyone ever feel like that??

 

Yes, If I have a particularly bad day I will try to end it with great sex in an attempt to relieve stress and thumb my nose at the universe for the bad day it dealt me.

 

yeah i mean yes i drink beer to help relieve stress and all but sometimes if you just have sex and release those endorphines in your brain it helps even more than drinking just enough beer that you can finally fall asleep with out running random thoughts and everyday bullshit through your head

 

or my head anyway i'm such a worry wort...

 

your not the only one dragonfly, i worry about the most stupidist things while trying to sleep. there are only a few ways i can drop off quickly enough. drinking alcohol but that can causes a disrupted night sleep, regulate my breathing paterns to the same as my fiances & lots of sex. my fiance like the latter the best haha

 

i agree sex is the way to go i just wish i could get some, i don't get out in my area much and i also don't get like real outgoing i guess would be the word for it unless i'm drinking. outgoing/sociable i guess...

 

Well, this is the eternal dilemma. When I was in college we used to look at the guys walking around campus and marvel about all that "fucking power" available, and oh by the way did we want some of it?

Hypothetically, if you were here right now, I could invite you to my bed. But could you keep it uncomplicated? I dunno ... younger men often have this idea that middle-aged women are desperate, and therefore they need to "let us down easy". Honestly, we're not, and you don't. We do like to fuck, though ... maybe even more than you do.

Hmmm ... now I'm complicating things, aren't I? ... darn ... lol

 

well love is complicated but sex shouldn't be, i mean shit i just need to find some guy around somewhere to just have fun with with, i mean shit i'm a 25 year old female, not nessicarilly in need of love just fuckin' i mean shit i do live in a college town and i also travel quite a bit i've been known to drive for hours just to go get laid, but i'm actually trying find someone in close target range. which is virginia or west virginia, am i just making this too hard, i mean shit???

 

i mean shit i'm a 25 year old female,

I thought you were a guy ... sorry

 

it's all good... i did something i like never do today and got on craigslist single in the area and even wrote back 2 guys to we'll see, it's really hard to go to knew place and like never get to get out and do anything, except kids day at the library and walmart wooo hooo... i'm just like way sexually frustraded and i can't even get off from masturbation cuz that's just a tease...

 

I like that attitude. When I was in my 20s in New Orleans, "Mrs. R" was 43 and we had some good times in bed (and on the floor and on the levee in Plaquemin Parish). I'm sure she loved my young man energy and wood hard cock - and she taught me how to slow down and enjoy the moment. It was a great uncomplicated fling.

Age is relative; 43, which was once the "older woman" to me, is now a young woman, about my daughter's age.

 

"Mrs. R" was 43 and we had some good times in bed

Mrs R? ... Hmmm ... I just have one word to say ... "plastics".

*snicker*

 

Dragonfly, I can understand a 25 yr old woman being horny, but not sexually frustrated. Women can practically snap their fingers and get laid. It's good to see that your making attempts to socialize with men because honestly, that's all you really need to do to fix your problem. Be careful with the online thing though, not knocking it at all just saying be careful.

 

Women can practically snap their fingers and get laid.

Men always think that. It's hard to explain to them why it's not necessarily true. Not to get too high falutin', but I think it goes back to biology ... men want to "spread their seed" as much as possible, women have to be more discriminating. There are societal attitudes and things too.

This is not meant to be critical of men. You didn't invent biology, after all. We all have to live with it. I'm just saying that there's more to the issue than snapping our fingers.

 

Of course there is more to it...I was simply making the point that with minimal effort she can get laid. You're taking all the fun out of it, talking of societal attitudes and biology, I don't mind the hunt at all. Its a great feeling to get past all of a woman's checkpoints and claim your reward

The truth is, men enjoy the playground that is a woman's body and many men will even pay for some time on it. If a woman is interested she only has to say so. I'm in a relationship so I must ignore any signals put out by women, but the chemical reaction of attraction is a potent drug for us men.

 

What a load of balls the only way a woman can have trouble getting laid is if her standards are to high, this is bourne out by my experience. The only single women I know are waiting for a muscular financier comedian/rockstar who is hopelessly in love with them and no other.

This attitude is painfully common in plain looking late 20s early 30s women who think they're it because they can hold down a job and look basicly presentable. These same women are about as entertaining as a sack full of dead badgers. If you cant get any with all the desperate guys around then this is likely your problem ladies.

 

hahahaha ... ok.

By "standards too high", you probably mean they don't want you.

 

If you view women as a "sack full of dead badgers" it's little wonder that you can't get laid.

There are desperate women who will settle for desperate guys .... so good luck in your hunt.