So far everything everybody has is great. If she is open to at least trying some anal stimulation, then do it. But if not, respect her, and drop it. If you feel that you NEED to have anal in your life, then get another girl friend. This may be your only solution if you can't live without it, but honestly, if you love her, going without anal is not bad, you still have a girl friend, so it's better than nothing. Pussy is still great, and number one, so be happy you have that. Anal is something a little extra, but it doesn't always happen and we have to face this.