This is confession and a plea for help. I was at a pool hall tonight and a really really nice and cute girl came in. All of my friends were telling me to go talk to her. But I couldnt. Reason 1 I am a pussy when it comes to talking to girls Reason 2 I dont really know what to say Alot of people have told me just to be cool and say what you really think. When I try to form sentences in my head though, they all sound to cheesy to say without getting laughed at. I guess my real problem is I am insecure. Does anyone have any tips other than the formentioned tip? I really really want to be in a relationship. I dont want a bunch of one night stands. Its really been bugging me lately please help. I havent had a girlfriend in almost 2 years!
Well two years is too long to not have a girlfriend. Maybe if you use a little scare tactics on your self and start thinking that if you don’t start talking to girls it will soon be 3 years then 4 years est. It never hurts to try so get out there and start chatting up some girls. Cheers!
yea im in the same problem, personally i think im ugly- ppl tell me im not but i think i really am repulsive. second- i dont know what to say either, i can have a conversation with girls i know- but i dont know what to say when starting fresh. i mean like saying hi how are you does seem abit worn out- and i feel if i get 1 rejection infront of a girl with her friends, then all girls will think im a loser etc. i hate me
Fake confidence if you don't have the real thing. People say its the most attractive thing! I feel ya though, it is kinda awkward just walking up to someone and talking to them and they know you are coming on to them. I wouldn't know what to say either. Let's see... in that situation you could have asked her to play a game of pool with you and then you could have talked to her while you played pool if she accepted. Just ask questions, everyone likes being asked questions about themselves. And be inviting like asking someone to play pool or something. Good luck to ya
^ well this on guy in college, some girl walked right by him and he said allright love! , the girl turned back and shouted out shut up you creep- infront of like 100 ppl, i would really not like to be in thuis guys shoes, yet he just laughed like nothing, if that happened to id like lose any confidence i have built up in my life
