Well I have been dating this girl for just over a month. We are both in High school and this is one of her first serious relationships. Her parents refuse to let us hang out more than once a week and wont let her drive with me. Does anybody have any advice that could help me out, or that could change this?
No, Im not really 19. her parents think shes too young to date. She is turning 15 in a week and I turned 16 just recently. Her parents dont trust me and wont leave us alone when we hang out at her house, when were at mine, her parents constantly call and obcess over her. She HATES her parents, she claims they abuse her. She really,really loves me, and everytime she tells her parents about this and why theyre restricting her, they just say she cant hang out this week. I asked her if we could hang out tomorow and she asked her mom, she just said " no" and didnt give a reason. What should I do to resolve this? Just wait it out till they get to trusting me?
can you start acting really flamboyantly gay(homosexual) around her parents... they might trust you if they think you're queer.
Make yourself look like a goddamn angel or something in their eyes man. Shake their hands be polite, give them a reason to trust you with their daughter. Just be polite as hell (please and thank you all the time) then they'll love you then they'll trust you. My girlfriend's parents wanted to litterly kill me, but now they love me 'cause they trust I won't fuck her up.
Her parents are afraid of you I'd say. You show up a fresh inexperienced driver and young man bursting with hormones to take their little girl out. The age she is at is a rough one for parents is my point/ she is growing up alot more then they want to admit pehapes. it's probably nothing you did, and nothing you can do short of being extra nice to them.
I've been in this situation before. IMO, the parents are the issue here, not you. I'm sure it would be the same regardless of who she was dating. It's just something that they will have to learn to deal with over time... and then they may never ease up on her. As others said, be polite and make sure you always present yourself well when around her parents... and maybe they might warm up to you... and maybe not. Some people just have really strict parents.
There is none. If her parents have custody, your ass is grassed. If, however, she's over 18 and chooses to do that on her own...your ass is also grassed!
i was in a semi-similar situation. and its still going on today. im 18 and my gf/fiancee is 17. when i go over to her house. we sit in the living room, and so do her parents. we cant be left alone in that house. its really nerveracking beacuse it feels awkward to hold her hand, when her stict parents are sitting 2 feet away.
Ugh, parents like that make me sick. It may be worth it to wait until she's 18 and date again when she leaves home.
I have the perfect solution, just go with it. As you said, she is like 15-16. Her parents will worry about her, and let them, she is there daughter. If you like her enough you can make it work. I mean, going against them will just piss them off and make it worse. And, if you are together by 18, then who gives a fuck what they think, she would be an adult.
no reason to. im engaged and she turns 18 in Feb. but it stinks because at my house, we have complete freedom. my mom walked in one night when my gf was naked. she didnt even bat an eye. she came in, said what she had to. and left. lol
just don't ever lie to her parents to meet with her. if they found out, that would be the end of it completely
Ah, if this only worked even one tenth of the time it was used... not saying it did not work for you, missedit, but in the main such overbearing and morally straitjacketed parents will not be swayed by such niceties. They know exactly what you have in mind for "their little girl". Of course, she is no longer "their little girl", apparently. But her daddy knows - not necessarily what you want to do, but HE would have wanted to do when HE was 16... I find so completely hypocritical that father's of teenage girls get so protective of their little girls. What parents need to be doing is giving their kids a firm education is the subjects of birth control and safe sex, not trying to stop them from growing up. Parents are supposed to RAISE their children, not PREVENT them frrom growing up. But back to reality, as apparently that is not what is happening in her home, I would have to suggest she learn the fine art of sneaking in and out of the house undetected. I am a past master on this subject and a willing teacher
