Girlfriends a virgin...having trouble

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Wilson, Sep 18, 2008.

  1. Wilson

    Wilson Member

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    Ok, so she's a virgin which obviously means she's really really tight. We've tried to have sex several times and I just fit myself in there if you know what I mean. Not saying I have a huge dick, she's just that tight. Everytime we've tried in the "normal" position, I guess, with me on top of her. Anybody have any ideas or suggestions? It's really frustrating for us, especially her. Any help will be greatly appreciated.
     
  2. Vire

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    keep trying she'll loosen up.
     
  3. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    Foreplay
     
  4. MrBDNice

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    ky and slam it in... lol
     
  5. new-guy

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    electric shock therapy lol
    that will losen her up
    get some lube or try more fore play use ur fingers to spread her walls or have her orgy once
     
  6. Wilson

    Wilson Member

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    Yeah I use my fingers on a somewhat regular basis. I guess slammin it in there is my best option lol thanks guys.
     
  7. just a tiger

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    First of all, if she's too tight you don't have to do it the first time with your cock.

    Your fingers can give her a lot of pleasure meanwhile
    Just start fingering her for couple of days. Start with one finger, then try two .... eventually she'll get used to have something thick as your cock inside of her.

    Don't rush !!

    By the way, the "normal position" is the worst way to do if she's a virgin.
    Just lay her down on a table and do it while you are standing up and she's laying on the table with her legs raised up.
     
  8. Lady of the Freaks

    Lady of the Freaks Senior Member

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    ben gay...works like a charm.
     
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  10. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    This person is right, she won't get any pleasure and you might end up making her cry from all the pain. Go slow, use lots of lube, foreplay. Just don't worry so much about it being tight. It will loosen up, be patient. Having her get frustrated can also cause her vagina to contract making it tighter. Keep her calm and just make her feel good.


    Tiffany:D
     
  11. Wilson

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    I didn't mean I was gonna actually "slam" it in there...she would probably cry. Anyway thanks for the help guys, she's comin down to visit me at college tommorow so I appreciate the help.
     
  12. rexnine

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    Kiss her real good...for at least 20 minutes...then cover her mouth with a pillow,
    because she's going to scream!!

    And don't forget to kiss her a bunch after!
     
  13. new-guy

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    cover her mouth with a pillow hummm some how that doesnt seem right
    whats going to happen
    "oh yeah baby yeah ......baby .....omg i killed u ohhhh yyyy ohh yyy did i put the pillow on ur face and press down so hard yyyyyy" lol sry couldnt resist
     
  14. sophieclair

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    Thats exactly what I was thinking.:smilielol5: If someone covered my mouth with a pillow, I'd kick them in the n*ts. No way, that is so not sexy. I don't cover her face she is gonna want to watch you.
     
  15. ninfan77

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    lots and lots of foreplay. go down on her too...
     
  16. Cuff

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    lube + foreplay + practice.
     
  17. new-guy

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    get a nice worm towel and place it on her waist above the pussy
    it relaxes the Muscles around the pussy allowing her to relaxes the pussy more(at lest thats how my GF say it works IDK)
     
  18. thisperfectworld

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    I'd send her off to the doctor; make sure she's perforated the hymen sufficiently; if not, the docs can fix her up, and reportedly then pain won't be an issue.

    If she's doctor-phobic, get some dildos of increasing girth.
     
  19. Frozen Solid

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    Go down on here until she is dripping wet, make her cum several times with your mouth and fingers. Then lube your tool and her pussy with KY and let her ride you, she controls how much goes inside her. By that time, she will be so turned on she won't really notice that it hurts at first.
     
  20. rexnine

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    ...I dint say cover her Eyes OR her nose, Did I??
    You guys have great imaginations!!!

    Besides, If she feels the need to cry-out loudly...she may be inhibited feeling that she is being too loud....that DOES happen....I've known a couple extremely vocal woman who enjoy the pillow it lets them be as loud as they want!!




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