Pfft,I never ask to spank a girl,I just do it. Why kill a spontaneous moment? Everytime I've done it,it's been greeted with that quick gasp of air then followed by "oooohhh". That's the best part.
That's a very interesting poll result! I thought most girls would object to that. (I thought there'd at least be a 50-50 split.) Should I ask first though if I want to slap? And if I do ask, is that off-putting? And what about name-calling? I would have thought slapping and name-calling go hand in hand.
i like to be tied up too!! hehe and biting (but not too hard!) is always a turn on, especially right there where my neck meets my shoulder... *shivers* mmmmm... but i don't really care for spanking. *shrug* that may just be me though. tie me, call me a whore, and let's do this! lol
My SO really loves a good spanking, she loves it very hard and with no warning particularly when I'm fucking her from behind. One really good hard slap after a prolonged fuck can bring her off instantly. We do also have a very specific spanking game too. Once the play begins there is no turning back Sue is expected to suck my cock with the express intention of making me cum as soon as she can, after sucking for a pre determined time, sometimes 30 seconds sometimes 5 minutes, it depends how we both feel, she will be instructed to stop, if I haven't cum she has to bend over and touch her toes and take a good hard stroke across the arse, this is usually administered using a thin bamboo cane that leaves a livid red stripe across her arse. Then its back to sucking cock, this gives the hot burning sensation in her arse time to fully spread across her ass and ****, after a shorter time a second stroke is administered, but she is allowed to rub her clit after this and subsequent strokes. This process is repeated upto 6 times by which time I almost drown her in cum and when i do she invariably cums herself as well. We have tried variations on this theme once with a second girl who joined in and another very exciting time when I used a leather belt directly onto her ****, this made her cry but we both really got off
Okay, well that last one was a little extreme but if it works for you. My boyfriend is just not kinky, he's very tender, gentle and thats all good but I would love to be spanked, to be tied up (or do these things to him, that would be fine too), but God only knows how that'll ever happen.
I'd say it's better to ask. I like being spanked. What can I say, pain really seems to get my juices flowing. But I'd be bothered by a partner who just assumed. Don't talk about it in the moment. All that stuff ought to be discussed BEFORE you get anywhere near the bedroom (or at least before naked if you're not using the bedroom)
I've only spanked a girl's ass twice during sex, both times it was a no no I did only because it was a good moment for me.
Spanking? I'm sorry but you can't be serious... it's like asking if I want sex to the sound of a kazzoo orchestra.