Me and my girlfriend go to different colleges and shes comming up this weekend. When i talked to her the other night she was saying how horny she is and she cant wait to see me and all that good stuff. Then she told me she used her friends vibrator last night and she came all over it and how awsome it was. I have never given her an orgasm. We have plenty of sex and foreplay it just has never happened. This has been bothering me and I feel that I NEED to give her a orgasm. I really want to please her more than anything and I need some advice on how to acheive this.
oral oral and more oral it's not a guarantee, but a good portion of chicks come from oral. I don't mean a ocuple licks, I mean being down there for at least 10 minutes, as long as 30 for some women. Ask her what she likes, what gets her close, if she'll masturbate (preferably by hand) for you.
Some women are completely different. Been with girls who come easilly from a bit off attention on the clit. Had one girlfriend who seemed to get almost nothing from cunnin lingus, or other external attention, but would come fucking hard from deep penetration or rubbing the g-spot with my finger. It's not that hard to tell what's working ona girl by the way their body reacts. If you've never managed it before maybe it's best you ask her staight though...
My money is on ihmurria's advice! Plus, for pete's sake learn (regardless of what you think you know! - us guys are usually so sure we know everything) Where The Head Of The Clitoris is!!! I know, I know - you aren't THAT stupid! I missed it for several years. Fortunately, the area of influence for a sensitive cit is wide, so anywhere near can produce orgasm. But in cases where lots of misses are the norm, learn where the most sensitive place exists - then lap, suck, and hum away, not forgetting that there is room for a couple fingers on the g-spot. Oh, and for starters try the nipples, increasing pressure considerably before heading down! Bon chance!!
and whens shes about to cum, what do i do? stay down on her, or use my fingers. I dont know why im so nerveous about this.
Do them both. Keep her cumming until she comes down. Then stop once it becomes too sensitive to touch either the clit or the hole. Good luck dude
It totally depends on the girl. You just have to spend alot of time with her, and spend ALOT of time on foreplay, finding out alot of what she likes, what she doesn't like etc. The other night me and my lady had an hour and a half of foreplay, but we didn't even have sex, we were perfectly happy doing just that. I love just, pleasing her orally or combination of that and hand work etc. Love seeing her happy/pleasured. Try getting her in the morning, for some reason my lady loves it even more in the morning. When she's about to cum don't change what you're doing at all, you've got it. It's ok to be nervous, alot of people are. I still am about alot of stuff.
When she's close to cumming, keep doing whatever you're doing... nothing worse than starting to orgasm and having the sensation stop or change, that's more frustrating than not actually cumming at all.
I remember one time my lady said "Dont you dare fucking stop" and something along the lines "If you stop, i will hit you" hahaha, she's joking but............yeah hahaha
Fuck her hard and deep, good long strokes, and then, take your cock out and stroke her clit and pussylips with the head. oh, and tongue her good.
