Going down on a girl...

Would the females out there let me know what you think is best when it comes to being licked out ?
My girl enjoys it, I know that, but ive never made her come from lickin her out.
Just tongue ? Fingers inside the vagina whilst licking the clit ? Tongue inside the vagina whilst rubbing the clit with my finger ?
Whats best for you, and makes you most wet ?

I do like to please....

 

Fingers, tongue, lips, get everything working at once. Don't be afraid to use some salvia and get her real wet. Don't focus on "doing it right". Listen to her, if she moans, she likes it, if she doesn't try something else. Go by feel.

 

Bella Donna is right...
listening and paying attention to her reactions is the most important thing to remember..you could learn all kinds of techniques but if it's not working for her then its all just for show....

another lil thing... my husband does this sucking thing that's absolutely amazing.. but that's just what I like

 

i like it when my boyfriend fingers my vagina while sucking and licking my clit. sucking and biting (not hard!!! just a little bite!) the clit always drives me crazy

 

don't stop whatever it is you're doing when she gets close to orgasm - don't speed up, slow down or change the motion, it can make her back away from that orgasm which can get really frustrating if it happens a couple of times (unintentionally at least)

 

Smooth! "CTRL-D"

I suck in licking(though it's sooo fun ). I'll try to go more with the flow and use Inagodadavita's method!

 

lmao... ok well that explains it perfectly
and I didn't think it could be done

 

Inagodadavita's got it more or less correct.
Listen... if you hear her start coming, do NOT stop! Like ihmurria said, it could stop her orgasm, and from my experience this SUCKS!
Women don't like to be teased at that point. Beforehand it's ok. When she's coming, it can be fatal...

 

what i ilke the most is knowing the guy is enjoying it, that he likes my pussy, thinks it tastes good, and really takes his time, like inagodadavita's response. (great advice btw ) change it up until she's about to cum... ask her to tell you what she's liking, either through words or body language or moaning... but realy try to read her without having to ask while you're doing it.. unless she really is NOT enjoying it, and then you can stop and ask for directions

 

word... it can mean she gets a teensy orgasm that's not really satisfying, but makes another orgasm practically impossible for a while. Or at least, that's what's happened to me a couple of times, and it's REALLY REALLY REALLY frustrating

 

Tongue-on-clit stimulation is absolutely heaven. When I get the tongue-on-clit right after breast/nipple play I can explode into a wild orgasm. The only thing that sucks about it (if even) is that my clit gets really sensitive after I orgasm.

 

Well, I followed these instructions as closely as I possibly could... and I had her almost screaming the house down on Friday night

 

good job

 

Cheers.

I took the 'get in there' approach, none of this tongue tickling bollox. After a few mins kissing her body all over, I gradually worked my way downwards, I 'wrapped' my mouth round her clit area and used my tongue (as flat as could possibly go) to stimulating her clit, whilst going from 1 or 2 fingers inside her at the same time...

After 5 minutes of that is was a pillow over head job for noise reduction (her mums room too close for comfort, ha), and the best thing of all, she certainly let me know how much she enjoyed it afterwards

 

excellent advise from Inagodadavita.

My method is very similar, i start off by teasing, kissing her all around her pussy, around her pussy lips, inside her legs, especially where the legs join to her body, then start on the pussy slowly, very very slowly with soft little licks and sucks, use alot of saliva to that helps alot! also put a finger in side and slide it in and out ever so slowly, then spread her lips wide apart and do a big fat SLOW lick from her ass to her clit. My girlfriend loves it when i suck on her clit, it drives her wild. The key is to keep it constat. keep the same motion going in the same area and she will cum harder then she has ever cum. I think doing in slowly also helps it so much more sexy and sentual. let her know that you love her pussy and that you want to lick up every bit of juice that comes out of it. doing the "mmmmmm" sound while your down there like Inagodadavita mentioned is also a great idea.

I love going down on my girl, its really the only way i can make her cum. She knows i love her pussy and that turns her on so much.

 

ooh i love hearing feedback about how things went with your girls

 

Dude to be honest you wont be able to work a girl just right. Girls or Women know how to work a girl and know how it feels and what to do, where to go. Men can try o perfect that but unless you read a girls mind it wont be as perfect. Women know matter who they re or where they come from can read between the lines with any gender. But in reality all girls are different in everyway, its just knowing what she likes, when to hit a spot at the right time and what techniques. Just like the saying Says girls can do it better...holla

 

yeah seriously just pay attention to your girl and her reactions, it's not that hard.

one girl i was with, took her may 20 minutes to cum usually, and i'd have to be very dilligently working her clit with my mouth while managing to hit her g-spot with two fingers curled upwards and moved back and forth. oh, with plenty of foreplay, of course. but she LOVED it and thought i was amazing at it.

last girl i was with was easier to please. just using my mouth and no insertion of anything, i would have her convulsing to the point of it being hard to keep my mouth anywhere near her while she was cumming within at least ten minutes, and in her words "did you know you're the best ever at that?" i mean, you can TELL its going well when her hips are suddenly going between being on the bed and being thrust up into the air and she seems like she's having a seizure and pulling your hair and all that....but the female orgasm seems to be longer lasting than the male, and i try not to let the first signs of success keep me from going on...i want her to get the best orgasm she can, and in my experience i get the best feedback if i can manage to keep going down on her even while she's cumming, until she asks me to stop.....anyhow, there are some tricks to really pleasing a woman that GENERALLY work, but every woman's different, just like every man. the REAL trick that is generally FOOLPROOF is to just be a good lover and pay attention and, if it comes to it, simply asking her to spell out quite explicitly what it is she'd like to have done to her.

sometimes though its just a matter of persistance. if you haven't made her cum just from oral sex, then its your fault, not hers. you just need to learn to be able to do it for longer periods of time. trust me, i KNOW your mouth and jaw can get VERY sore and tired doing this, but if shes the kind of girl that takes a while, then you need to be the kind of lover that gives her a while! you can improve your time by practicing just licking the palm of your hand (wash it first ) while watching tv or something if nobody's around. do it till you can go for about half an hour without stopping, and you'll be able to go long enough, most likely.

i am not at all very sexually experienced with girls....i mean, i've participated in a large number of different sexual activities with girls, but only two different girls. but i can tell you now, you dont have to be some rockstar to please your woman, it just takes a little thoughtfulness and a little technique, and in my experience if you give good head, and give good head consistantly and nearly every time you two get together, then she will melt for you! especially if you have the problem a lot of guys have...most guys have problems lasting too tremendously long when in bed. this makes oral sex all the more important. on any given day i may perform well or poorly in the sack, but i can ALWAYS go down on a girl, and even if i'm not in the mood myself giving is just a hell of a lot of fun! i try to make a point of eating my girl out every time, to warm her up. even if every guy lasted forever, i've heard only about 30% of women orgasm from penetration alone. i always try to go down on her and make SURE she gets off at least once or twice before we actually have sex if we're spending the night together. plus, this often means she needs breaks in between, which turns sex from a boring and routine in-out-goodbye deal to an all night labor of love...and pleasure, of course. the more you're willing to give, the more likely she will be to give.

i have many female friends (and both past lovers) that have informed me that men almost never pay attention to THEIR needs in bed, and that a man that can give good oral sex is a rare and precious thing, and while it's not a surefire ticket to get her to fall in love with you or anything....well....it CAN really increase the intimacy, and if she's pleased and satisfied, she'll let you know! (and often she'll let others know when you're not around, and lets face it, not every relationship lasts forever, so it doesnt exactly hurt to have a reputation for being great in the bedroom!)

 

I agree 110%
The guy im currently seeing hasnt been able to get me off..
He gives up after about 10 min..
So sex is a major downer because of that..

but i love all the advise..

 

O.K. Everyone, (everyone interested in giving great oral to a woman)

STUDY THIS POST!!!

I read this post a couple weeks ago, and thought... eeh, might be worth a try.

Recently I felt the need for a new trick, so I searched my memory and
tried what I could remember of what Inagodadavita said above.

Man (Inagodadavita), You were right on!
"If she does not send out a gratifying moan, you did something wrong."
I almost actually laughed out loud when the gratifying moan arrived right on schedule. However, I managed to maintain and follow the thing through to a logical conclusion.

Good advice!!!
Thanks