Going On A Pussy Eating Strike

I've decided to go on a pussy eating strike with my Fiance - tell me if I'm wrong' Here's the situation. I give her Oral when she refuses to give me any, Do I complain, No. But the other day she comes over And I'm literally eating the pussy for over an hour. And when I say an Hour I'm not exaggerating. But after she cums for maybe the third time she flat out didn't want to have sex. Now had she said from the get go all I want is you to go down on me with no sex. I could have at least weighed my options as to whether I was willing to do that or not. But now I look at it like its bad enough you want head without giving me head, you only want it every other week. But now you want the pussy ate with no sex, Hell no. So I told her she better had enjoyed it cause it's the last time for a while. Now is it childish of me to go on this strike or should I go on it until I get more frequent sex, or should I stay on it until I'm getting some head too. Me personally I don't like game playing when it comes to sex, but right now I see no other option right now.

 

Right.

So your only going down on her so you can get sex in return?

Good on you. Good luck with that.

 

I'd be finding myself another broad right about now.

 

Finad another woman more suited to your sex drive.
Life is too short to make so many consessions when it comes to your love life.

 

I hate to say it, but she sounds kind of prudish. I mean, if you're servicing her, then it should be returned in my opinion. Doesn't really seem fair.

 

Got to agree qith everyone else in here. Sounds like you are in the right on this one

 

sounds like your her bitch

 

that was insulting - But funny as hell at the same time.

 

Did she offer anything in return? a hand job, boobjob....or an apology and excusse even? If so then at least shes trying and is at least acknowledging of the fact you too have desires to get off, but if not, i'd leave her, she's obviously too self absorbed to be a good gf. Its not just about the sex, its about how she treats you as another individual with needs and emotions

 

Nope, I even tried to get her to go with the handjob and she didn't want to do that. What really kind of pissed me off was that she waited until the day after next to try and make it up. I just think its messed up that I go from being single and pretty much getting sex whenever I wanted it, to being with a person that wants it once a week, if that.

 

give her an ultimatum:

eat it or beat it.

 

it just sounds like you 2 aremt that sexually compatible. ive broken up with people for nto being sexually compatible. admitteedly i wanst in love wht them or been with them for years on end but.... sexual compatibiliy is a big part of a realtionship for me

 

I've got to say i'm a little surprised at most of the responses in this thread.

I really never see it as "you did me so now i owe you" kind of thing. To me, that is the wrong reason to do something. I dont like this idea that you are trying to make her feel obliged to do something.

 

I couldn't agree more, if its just casual sex then i can see why you would complain, but sex isn't about a trade off, if you are comfortable giving her oral sex then you shouldn't be doing it in return for a blow job, yes sex shouldn't all be one way, however you shouldn't be doing it just to recieve something in return.
also if she is uncomfortable with doing oral on you and you force her hand by this, it could be argued that she isn't agreeing to it........ and do I need to go any further with this line of thought?
Shes your girlfriend not your whore
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You guys got it. It's about wanting to please your partner regardless of the reciprocation.

That having been said, I would never waste my time on someone who doesn't adore kissing the weasel.

 

well if you ever date anyone again, make sure you bring this up first, it would make a lovely over the dinner conversation!!
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What if he was a chick with the same problem- she had to suck him for an hour but didn't get anything in return. It sounds like you're a 0000 or a 00000 ... Or possibly, you didn't read his stuff correctly.

All sex is about giving and recieving. Eating her more than she sucks him would make him a generous guy, but being denied orgasms with him still with her? And on a regular basis? That makes him a saint and her an ungrateful bitch.

 

now say the same to me, my post was along the same lines but a lot harsher
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She should want to please you, if she loves you...

 

that sounds like emotional blackmail to me, if he loved her he would not be trying to force her to do something she doesn't want to do
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