going to see x g/f this weekend

So this weekend I'm taking my sister back to college & meeting one of her friends half way & dropping her off w/ her & then I'm continuing on to my x g/fs (who lives about 4 hrs away from my house) and since breaking up a few years ago in college we've been totally cool and gotten over everything & can just talk about w/e. she had said that I should come & visit since my sister goes 2 school relatively close 2 her. So I told her that I would take my sister down & asked her if i could come visit & stay the night & she said that was awesome & she said staying at her place was no problem and she said she would find stuff 4 us 2 do. So I know we're doing this totally as friends, but do u guys think theres any chance @ all that shes thinking something more? I mean should I bring the 'who am i kidding' condom? I mean I would rather be prepared b/c if i have the chance & dont have something w/ me im gunna be pissed, haha. Anyway whats your POV? And I'll plan to update this once I go down & come back.

 

prepare for the best just dont expect nothin, but u might have a good night

 

well if ya know that then there's your answer! have you saw her after you guys broke up? if not, then maybe some sparks could fly again if you get to talking.. but don't get your hopes up or expect anything, just in case it doesn't happen. but i would take the condom for sure just to be prepared if anything did happen.

 

you'd be retarded not to take a condom, or three just in case. you never know when you might need them. its the same as carrying a first aid kit, even if you never need them, its that one time you forgot it and needed it that comes back to haunt you.
just have a good time, and if any advances are to be made, let her make them. trust me on that one.

 

you should carry one always no matter what man.

 

Bring the condom. But imo the worst thing you can do is be expecting for something sexual to happen. If you stop expecting anything to "happen" you will be more of yourself and that's a good thing

 

I agree

 

Fuck condoms...

 

^^^lmfao

 

Fuckin' a right, man. I agree with every word of what this guy says.

 

sweet jesus ive seen that picture so many times and it has never failed to make me laugh out loud...

 

bring condoms if she is going to have alcohol. it will just happen..it usually does with ex's.

 

Yeah, I'm assuming alcohol will be involved since shes a big wine drinker, but who knows....we'll have 2 see what happens.

 

wine is good lol

 

So I got back from my ex's today. I brought her a bottle of wine & she loved it, which is good (as I mentioned she loves wine). So we went out 2 dinner & had a few bottles of wine there (she only drank too b/c she told me she didnt wanna get too drunk, lol). At dinner we talked forever about college memories & stuff & laughed a ton & got along better than I think we almost ever did when we were going out. Then we got on the topic of relationships and she apologized for how shitty she to me & blaming everything on me (reason why I broke up w/ her) and how much she regretted it and how she loved being together & stuff. So later on we just went back 2 her apt & watched movies & played w/ her cats, haha. But shes going to London at the end of February for a few weeks so I'm going down to see her again most likely before then. There's def. still something between us but we both aren't sure if it would work just b/c she just started going for her MBA (4 hours from where I'm living now) and I'm already done with school & work in an industry (broadcasting) where I have the potential to end up moving almost every year for several years. So I don't know what will end up happening. If I do end up going to see her again b4 she leaves 4 London I def. wanna see what she thinks about everything (I would rather do that in person than on the phone or something).

 

no butsecks?

 

tee hee hahaha

 

sounds like you have a great friend in her man, that's definitely worth more than a booty call :cheers2: