Gonna dig up my dead brother..

So my fucking family can be happy... Really getting sick and fucking tired of hearing how he did this and that...
My brother was a wreakless alcoholic, a total crackhead.. beat every Gf he had and even beat the shit out of girl while she was holding the baby.
Im sick of fucking hearing how he was this nice guy and so good at being a chef..
Im gonna go dig the fucking asshole up and put him in a chair at my parent house and say "here he is now shut the fuck up"...
I cant even call my family and not hear how he was always around, how he cut the grass and shit.. Of course he did that house is surrounded by Bars and Drugs.
He died while I was in Afganistan... So fucking what!!!! I dont care no more.. Its like close to his anni of his death and I really dont give a fuck..
Im sick of fucking hearing how great he was...
SO fucking great that none of his Ex/widows and 3 kids in all, never haha come around or send cards to my parents or nothing... All I ever hear is my grandparents rights..
you aint got no fucking rights MOM.. them chics went on with their lives and shit.. They want nothing to do with this family and I dont blame them one bit...

Motherfucking disfuctional idiots... no wonder I needed to go overseas to something worse that my own family... And really Iraq and Afgaini was like Kennywood compaired to the fucking Bullshit these PPL bicker about everyday....
Get a life will you please!!

 

you could get in trouble for digging him up
but it would be cool if you did do it

 

well it depends on the cemetery

I used to wander around cemetery's all night talking to ghosts and no one ever bothered me. I could have dug up all the graves no problem.

 

you know my damn PTSD support said the same thing.. how much trouble can you get in? just dirt and some bones. I guess Ill have to take a sledgehammer to the crypt cover but how much is that?? a $1000.00 imo.. Its gona be worth it..

 

if your serious dont do it man i was just kidding
you could get in some big trouble

 

in my world you're going to dig him up, haul his coffin out of the grave and open it up. Then his corpse is going to bitch slap you for writing this thread, grab a 2lb sledge and a chisel, chip 'they better have beer in heaven" on his gravestone, and then bury his own damned self sans coffin.

 

he's not in the grave, man, apparently he's the Second Coming. at least, that's what you should tell your parents. that'd be cool.

 

I think it would be a lot more work than it's worth for someone you don't value too highly. They pack those coffins in like...cement coffins, and then bury them 6 feet down. Just seems like a lot of hassle to me.

 

I'm guessing they hugged him more as a child?

You seem to have some seriously repressed feelings about your brother.

 

He does highly value his brother. That's why he hates him so much. He feels betrayed that his brother fell off the wagon and turned into the person he did.

Atleast that's my take on it.

 

doct ..... doctor phil?

 

just go piss on his grave that will save you
alot of legal strife

 

Please. I'm far more rude and judgmental.

 

Yeah man. If you actually dig him up there could be some serious problems. But if you feel its somethin' u really gotta do then go for it. Its not actually harmin' anythin' livin' so its all game.

 

yeah I know that does seem like alot of work, but I thinks they leave the front end loader just parked there.

Im tired of hearing how hes was always around.. South Side is full of bars and he lived where there was no bars..
His last wife said he was married to a bar stool and not her...
I cant even see my nephews and nieces cause the chaos that the rest of the family caused...

I havent even been there, never nope..
Dont even care.. his last wife went into debt burying his ass and buying a stone shell never look at again.. I know they dont go there either..
pttf trying to be nice to my mom by doing that...
haha she goes out there and puts flowers on the shit..
should drop off a case of beer and a crack pipe... fucking flowers..

 

Right. The general resentment of the praising of a loved one who has passed. A lot of people go through it on your end and your parents end. My point is I think these feelings of hatred are artificial. A defense mechanism if you will. You obviously wanted great things for your brother and, as most do, I'm sure you wanted one day for you and your brother to be successful and have happy, intertwining lives.

Your brother not only ruined that with his inability to stay off of drugs and lead a good life, but in his passing he also robbed you of your due credit. His passing overshadows what you feel to be some of your lifes accomplishments.

I doubt anybody could really talk about their dead sibling that way just out of general animosity and being tired of hearing their parents mourn a lost soul.

 

s thats very true, I hate him cause of all the shit he did and they make like it dont matter..
He cut the grass. so what he then took the money, got beer and them fought with ppl..
if they listen to me they wouldnt need to cut grass. Or less of it... To much bs my family does to keep the disfunctional shit going on and on..

 

thanks M.R.. I have to go for a min.. brb.. But thats sort of the case how you said it.. I cant make nobody else in my family see it that way though.

 

Orison, the problem with peope in general is that they never remember the GOOD things people do until after they're dead. Likewise, family never remembers the BAD things people do after their dead.

Let go of your anger, dude. Ya gotta learn to shut out the bullshit.

 

I agree with Zoomie...
Just let it go. Change the subject if they keep talking about him.