Recently I lost my virginity, and maybe have had sex 6-10 times, but the problem I have found is, in the past, she would get too sore before I could finish, and also now for the situation and circumstances we are in being people who live at home dont have time. I find my mind wandering sometime even though I love my girlfriend more than anything and she is dead sexy. I am wondering if you have any tips for more enjoyable, not nessesarly quicker sex, but just so that I can actully focus and just have a good time and actully finish for the first time during intercourse
Have better Sex. More Sex = better sex. Get better at oral sex on her too. If she's a nice girl she'll reward you 10-fold if you get really good at going down on her.
Oh I definatley am. No bragging but I can make her scream, and make her feel better than she can make her self feel.
lay off any masturbation you currently do - do it less do you fantasize when you masturbate? try fantasizing about similar things when youre having sex with her foreplay should be for you too btw
Good idea . I dont really fantasize about much but I think more relaxed foreplay would be a good idea and also relaxed sex without thinking "OK CUM THIS tIME ASSHOLE"
The reason you're not cuming during sex, is because she's out of shape "down there". In that, i mean she isn't tight on you enough to be able to pleasure you properly. She's probubly new to sex too if she isn't falowing the technique of clenching with her PC-muscle Um ever heard of "kegel exercises"? When you are taking a piss try to stop flow in the middle of going. Thats the muscle you use when you ejaculate(Pubococcygeus(AKA: PC-muscle) and its the muscle you are to clench during kegel exercises. Its ALSO the muscle SHE uses tighten up on you during intercourse. If she works on that, i GUARANTEE you'll both be cumming sooner AND it'll be a lot more pleasurable. You and her should practice this exercise every day for like, at least 30 minutes. Clench it for 10 seconds then release and let it rest for just five, then repeat. P.S: An added bonus to exercising the pc-muscle is the ability to shoot really far. I can shoot it like 5 to 6 feet so far and my girl thinks its the neatest thing ever to watch me hit stuff that far away XD.
Lizardd - lay off the masturbation. On your next date, make sure you have not cum for three or four days beforehand. Do a lot of foreplay, and try different positions for intercourse. Use more lubrication or lubricated condoms, which can be relubricated (don't use vaseline on condoms). Use a thinner condom. Think about things other than cumming - count the thrusts, do "sets of nine". PM me if you don't know what that is.
OMG...at the age you are and to be a pro already!! Seriously, I doubt it has anything to do with your girl being "out of shape" down there, but listen to the sex-pert above if you must:toetap: . It sounds like you're stressin yourself out over the whole experience. RELAX!!! Lay off the masturbation and see if that helps....maybe engage in more foreplay, and just enjoy yourselves. Sex is NOT supposed to stress you out!!
