Guy friends

It's really weird when you have a crush on a friend of the opposite sex...and not just a friend, but someone that knows practically everything about you...and even though they know all this stuff they still have a crush on you...

Then when you find out...it's all over (and not in a bad way either)...

I can never think of him the same way again....

I haven't decided if that's a good or bad thing, yet. I don't think it's quite sunk in...

Drunken nights are weird.

 

i have no idea whatsoever what the hell you're saying here.

 

Yeah a random thought.

I found out a guy that I have a crush on actually has liked me back but was too chicken shit to say anything...

And it all came to light last night...it was weird and I liked it.

 

I can feel my hand pulsing on the mous.

 

I know what you mean. I have had that happen to me once along time ago.

IT was weird. We decided to try being more than just friends but it didn't work. So we are just friends again. He is still one of my very best friends.

 

when i was in school, i thought no one would ever like me. in high school i thought i could never get a date if i was single.

then i graduated and a few years later i started hearing about people having crushes on me. i had a couple reactions to this. why didn't anyone say anything and would i have stayed with my boyfriend if i'd had any idea?

 

I'm pretty sure it has something to do with guys being intimidated by strong women...but that's just what I think.

 

Annie, drunken nights are weird for sure, but cocaine nights are worse! I remember a threesome with my ex's best girlfriend..................yea, VERY bad news :tongue:

 

whew. coke nights. jesus. :stunned: did i REALLY do that? why yes, yes i did.

 

Oh! You've been involved in a coke fueled threesome as well KC?! I mean, I liked it, and the girls did too, but when the shit wears off and you realize what you did, I mean really let it sink in, its like uh..oh........

 

threesome? oh no, your poor poor amatuer...

 

Well, what are you talking about then? And yea I didnt go all the way with the other girl, only some of the way, but that was enough to cause some MAJOR emotional problems, needless to say Im not with my sons mother anymore and neither of us talk to the girl anymore. I mean thats not the reason we broke up, but it was a nice little push in the mistrust directions.

 

we had a sex fest. several of them. it was awesome. ironically, it was the coke that became the problem, not the sex.

 

There is no such thing as straight male to female friendships. No matter how well buried or pushed to the side, there will always be underlying sexual tension from one party or from both....

just my opinion.

 

i pretty much agree. sexual tension, though, doesn't necessarily mean the end of a friendship. i've had sex with a couple of my friends, and after getting that out of the way, there's still a wonderful friend there.

 

I've had that happen to me in gay relationships, but not straight ones....

 

That has happened to me quite a few times. I like being friends with someone first anyways.

 

That has happened to me quite a few times. I like being friends with someone first anyways.

 

yeah, it was both. like an old married couple who've been there and done that. it sorta loses it's tension, becomes comfortable and nice. maybe on occaision you do it again, but it's pretty simple and sweet and close.

 

I disagree, I tend to be "one of the guys" so most of my guy friends don't think of me in that sexual way...at least I don't THINK they do. I didn't think this one did, either, but he does...

*shrugs* I can look at guys as just friends...I have plenty of guy friends that I haven't ever slept with.