Have you ever been raped?

I just wondered how common it is, if yes then did you tell anyone? How did it effect you?
I live in a pretty safe area but even so, a girl i kinda knew at the time got raped at night, it must be more common then i thought....

Please reply.

 

Wow....what a rough question...yes...and no, my parents still dont know. But, I did get a beautiful baby girl out of it....

 

Everytime i buy anything i get raped. everytime i get stop by local police i get butt fuck with a pineapple.

 

What a stpid thing to say. Its a serious question.

 

No I have not. Fingers crossed I never will.

 

i want be rape right around now.

 

I've been raped twice. My first time, it was at a party and I was 13. My best friend and I showed up at this party and we didn't know anyone. Someone kept feeding me E and between the E, the alcohol and the weed, I was pretty fucked up. A guy, whom I didn't know, fucked me infront of everyone there, while I begged him to stop. The worst part: the fuckers videotaped it. Oh and I was a virgin at the time. Pretty nasty shit.

The next time, I was 15 and I was camping with my family. At the site next to ours, a guy and his grandfather were staying. The guy and I started to hang out and went into the woods to smoke a joint. We found an empty, secluded place and got high. Next thing I knew, he had me pinned down on the ground. He kept telling me that he knew I wanted it. I didn't and I can remember trying with all my might to push him off me. He was much stronger than me, though, and there was little I could do. We were far enough away that I couldn't call for help, so I just laid there and prayed it would be over soon. Afterwards, he told me that if I told anyone, he'd kill my little sister. Like a foolish little kid, I believed him and didn't say a word. I regret that so much, because my father was there, and if I had've told him, he would have tortured the guy.

In time, I told my mother about both of the experiences. She was supportive and even asked if I wanted to talk to shrink about it, which I didn't. As far as how it's effected me, well, I admit, I'm a little suspicious of strangers, I started taking self defense classes and I carry a pocketknife and 'rape whistle' in my purse. Oh, and I won't touch E ever again.

 

Didnt you learn the first time? 13 and taking E, alcohol and weed? How could you go thru that but then go into the woods with some random guy you know nothing about and get high? You should have looked after yourself a bit better.

 

Oh, I completely agree. I should've known better, but I was a stupid, naive kid. In fact, I didn't see anything wrong with it at the time. Of course, I'm a lot more careful not to allow myself to get into those types of situations now. That doesn't change the past, though.

 

Wow i feel sorry for you. Virginity is a special thing to share with the one you love, and you lost it like that. Didnt your friend try to help you?

 

No, she chose to fuck a guy that was there, in the privacy of a bedroom. She was nowhere to be found, until the whole thing was over. I looked for her and she was in the bedroom with this guy, and I ran in crying, telling her I wanted to go home. She called us a cab and we stayed at her place that night. I didn't even tell her what happened until we got back to her place. (And I still wonder what happened to the videotape...) I was so messed up and ended up really sick (prolly from the drugs and booze!). My friend and her mom took care of me for the night.

However, I don't count that as exactly 'losing my virginity'. I mean, physically, yes, I lost it that night. But, if this makes any sense at all, I didn't consider it 'having sex with someone' because it wasn't a choice on my part. When I was sixteen, I chose to have sex with someone for the first time and emotionally and mentally, that's when I feel I lost it. But, that's just my kinda odd logic.

 

Its not odd, i understand your logic lol. So your best friend has been fucking guys since she was 13? Thats a bit young!

 

Yeah, she was actually 14, but meh... We were those dumb kids who thought that drinking lots and taking every drug we could made us cool and mature. However, a good friend of ours died from an overdose and another friend had to be rushed to the hospital to have her stomache pumped after taking too much E, so we eventually saw the error of our ways. Unfortunately, it was a little late. Now, I'm terrified of most drugs. I still drink and smoke pot, but I won't touch much else.

 

Bella Donna

All I can say is, I am so sorry that happened to you.

As for the idea that you should not have gone into the woods with the second guy, I sure do hope that you don't accept ANY piece of responsibility for that. Its seems to me that you were guility only of wanting to hang out and smoke some reefer.

 

Won't touch MUCH else? Lol joking.

More people here have been sexually assaulted than i thought. I had no idea it was so common.

 

It is a very common occurance. Every girl I have ever dated was raped at one point in there life. Usually in there case by older people and in one occurance by her own father. It really is a sad thing, I don't understand how someone could do that.

 

I know its fuckin sad, they are probably the type that never really get very far with girls anyway.

 

I agree with you there. I think it happens a LOT than we might think. It's just a matter of coming forward with it or not. Either due to fear of their perpetrator or them not being taken seriously or made to think they had some fault in it.

However,I've also been on the end (indirectly) of being accused of rape when it never even happened. Some girls are fucked up like that.

Don't know why but it seems like the ones who are actually raped or abused never come forward with it and the girls who falsely claim they were raped take to the media to expose a crime that never happened.

 

yes, more than once. no, i won't go into details.

 

I know one girl who was raped, and the only reason for that was the truly shitty people she hung out with. No girl i know with protective parents have ever been raped. I blame partents for not informing and protecting their children enough. Jesus fucking Christ. We learn't about pedofiles in PREP!! We learnt what to look out for and whatnot. That kind of thing should be taught in ALL schools.