That's where you sit on you hand till it goes numb and masturbate so it feels like someone else is giving you a hand job. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B4gphpOflUU"]Dave Chappelle and Lil Jon - YouTube
I have tried it but may have not done it right - my hand never seemed 'numb' enough for it to seem like 'someone else'. Any advice on how to improve will be GREATLY appreciated!
That's the advantage of using a FleshLight. Although you may have full control in the physical activity, no actual contact is made between your hand & penis, which gives it that 2nd (or even 3rd) party sensation which the 'Stranger' affords, albeit very briefly, until the bloodflow returns.