He wants me to quit!!!

I met this new dude and hes awsome and everything i dreamed well not relly he treats me right like no other guy has....but i told him that im a ganja smoker and he wants me to quit because he thinks its bad for me...i dont know whut to say to him or how to react i told him that im going to have to work on it and see how it goes but i dont want to part from my green trippy friend!

 

which is more important to you?
pot
or the boy?

 

Yeah that's the question here; which one's more important? then you go from there.

 

u cant ask wich is more important but don't quite grass coz u urselve know what ull be missing

 

is he worried about your health, or is he trying to change you? If he wants to change you, stopping smoking isn't going to work, you will still be the same person regardless, and he'll find something else he doesn't like about you. If he's worried about your health, tell him it's your life to live, not his.

 

all im saying is, he probably wants you to quit for the right reasons; health. but thats your body, and its yours to do as you wish. i hope the only reason you are considering quitting is becaus ehe treats you right. i know guys take alot of shit for the way they are with women...but take it from me, NOT ALL OF US ARE LIKE THAT...and for anyone reading my posts lately...sometimes you just lose sight of whats important...if its meant to be, he wont mind

 

Amen mamaboogie

 

If he is trying to change you already then this won't be the last thing.

 

Ahhh.... I've dealt with this quite a few times. And I've quit quite a few times. Finally I said if someone can't accept the things I choose to do, than it's thier problem not mine. I don't change myself for anyone.
Do as you feel you need to. If he makes you happier than smoking, then quit. Make the choice for yourself, not him.

 

Last time I was in that position...
..One afternoon, I sent him to the store for something...He forgot his money, & caught me burnin' one on my own back porch.
Guess it didn't take.
My own back porch. The one I paid the rent on..That worked on me awhile. I wasn't ever impaired so that I was missing work..Or neglecting my animals.. Or him.

 

Chris_1661

 

Boyfriends/girlfriends come and go but good ol' MaryJane will never leave ya.


Forget 'em. Find a cool stoner dude to go with.

 

i agree with mamaboogie

 

Whatever you decide don't lie to him. If you coose not to stop smoking pot, tell him, just don't lie to him.

 

Oh please. We get the point already with the "You're Not The Boss Of Me Now" anthem of Malcolm in the Middle.

I've been on the other side of the fence - stating clearly MY views that smoking is plain disgusting and I've never put up with it, pot or cigs. An ex also "quit" while he was with me but he was a lying fuck in many respects anyway. I have no respect for smokers.

If you want to be with him, toss out the shit. If you want your sticks of death, then be honest and let the poor guy go.

 

does he really have control over what you do in your free time? no.

why can't you smoke on your own terms and seperate him and smoking, would there be a problem with that? I can't see why not.

if it isn't smoking it'd probably be something else...every relationship has issues and it amazes me how it's usually the small things that tear people apart.


final verdict:he is wrong. do whatever the hell you want and find someone who accepts you for who you are..as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, who cares.

 

talk to him more about it
explain to him how exactly you feel about weed
have him explain to you how exactly he feels about weed

you shouldn't conform to wo people want you to be
but sometimes you must make sacrifice for a loved one

 

you smoke pot- he should accept it.
if you quit he'll probably find another thing he wants to change about you.

 

yo i agree, u wanna smoke weed go for it thats no issue. No one can make you stop things you enjoy doing. In terms of your self, i have a brother whos got a serious problem with the stuff, he literally smokes like 5 joints a day so its a bit scary when you start noticing him slurring his sentances, and getting into these random anger bursts. Just make sure it doesnt effect ur life style too much, like im a smoker, and i really wanna quit, but never seem to be able to, needless to say i play alot of sport and as of yet i still havent really felt inconvenienced by it, so i think with the weed u gotta think a similiar thing. But yeah i wouldnt quit if my girlfriend asked me to...
keep it reall
abs

 

heh I agree... and she accused me of seeing things in black and white which of course was wrong.