Hi Everyone, My name is Jennifer, but I go by Jen. I am 31, and live in Southern California with my partner of almost 10 years now. I have a wide array of interests from writing, to traveling, art shows, photography, hanging out with our three dogs, a boxer, a terrier, and a basset hound. I guess the main reason I joined this site, was to post a question about something that's always bothered me about when it comes to myself and being a lesbian. I've been out since I was 21, late bloomer compared to some people, but I have always known deep down