Okay so I've been sexually active for 6 years and have never had an orgasm... i feel like im almost there like its all building up and i start to climax but then nothing happens. Its extremely frustrating! I don't know what to do, i feel like i've tried everything!
Let me ask you something. Have you ever tried masturbating alone to orgasm? Usually people experience their first orgasm this way rather than through sex with a partner.
I'm a female. And yes I've tried masturbating alone and I just havn't gotten there yet. Like I said I get the feeling like I'm going to and this feeling because almost overwhelming and then **bang** its gone.. and nothing happens.
Maybe you are orgasming and you just don't know it, it's really not all that exciting. For me it's like a half second of what?, then it's done, so who knows
If this was true, then hundreds of women pleased by the Polish Hammer would have been faking it... Nah I'm the shit.
Orgasm is not something you miss. Real orgasm requires good affective stimuli, its not going to work unless you really put effort into it. It took me and my partner a long time to achieve it. Try between 6PM to 6AM. Shocked ? Well thats the only way I know thats what worked for us. I had to spend a lot of time on foreplay caressing her, believe me it was not easy, my arms where aching, my balls were aching ( actual pain from being aroused for so long). So don't fret because you didnt get there. Some things that I believe help. Lights off only natural moon light through the window. Room temperature doesnt seem to make any difference whether its hot or cold. We had no heating it was cold. I made her a meal before I did it, maybe thats a nice thing to do and helps some how. I think a certaina amount of rapport is in important but maybe not. You dont need to be in love. But I was very gentle caring and considerate. She wouldnt allow me to enter, she was waiting to reach her own threshold of orgasm. When she did finally allow me it wasn't long after she orgasmed, so clearly she was waiting till she was ready. Extended foreplay (hand caressing very slowly and very gently all over her entire body not just what is called erongenous zones for extended period of time.) Its not rubbing its caressing. I usually caress for a very long time like I said I look for waves of goose bumps on her skin just kept doing it for hours. The caressing is important some how, the contact. Hope that helps. GB.
