I love feeling anally stretched, but it's the in and out motions of a dildo that I find less enjoyable. I use lots of lube and can take a 1.5 inch buttplug so it's not that im too tight, the sliding just doesn't feel very good. Is there a sensation that i should be concentrating on when receiving anal? I wan to take my GFs strap on so I really want to enjoy this? Does anyone have any similar experiences overcoming this? I think im just gonna mess with my ass everyday this week and see where I am next sunday. Any tips?
You just gotta get on all fours and take it how it is buddy. Once someone else starts doing it they'll barely ever get it to feel like you do solo. So time to shut up and take it!!
Well she was the one using the dildo on me. There was a bit of burning but plenty of lube. Idk, maybe just even slower?
Burning could be caused from the lube. What type are you using? Not all lube suits everyone. I've had trouble with lubes before. Finally found a good silicone based lube that doesn't burn, doesn't rash and not sugar infections!! You could try slower. Personally I'd buy a butt plug thicker than your dong and stretch yourself out daily until it doesn't hurt.
It could be what the toy is made of. If you are using a Jelly toy, or some of the cheaper toys, they may be outgasing. This is the process of the plasticizers leaching from the toy. Clean the toy and let it sit for a day or two without use. Then lick it. If it tastes salty, then it's probably what is giving you the burning feeling. You can put a condom on the toy which will shield you from the burning or just throw the toy away and buy another, better quality one. I've had this happen to me and my partners in the past. I just throw the toys away anymore.
