hay every I am a guy came from 3d world country or actually 10th world country. to be in love relationship it is not easy it so, so (f) hard where I live in is a religious country, religious roles, religious society,,,, it is the hell on earth before a month I was like a lucky guy to find a lady through Facebook and we had a chat for long long hours via Skype we so each other and we chatted by mic and it was like finally, I found an open mind lady who is gonna be my love. we talked about all our life details such as : future plans , what we love what we hate and what what what ... est. she lives in Dubai and i live in the hell of Saudi Arabia, we both are Saudis from the same city, we decided that we have to meat and go out and dates go around and see how the relationship will go and we really close to each other. we did not sleep together yet but i would like to know what is the definition of love ? what actually happened to me yesterday and she was totally screwed up we was chatting by mic via Skype and she told me that she is not awake and told if i want to call her back again i told her i have no problems i can be with you in any situation it does not mater for me if you are awake or not and then she told me that are you sure ( me ) ? i told her yes why not i want to be with you all the time ( because at least we like each other ) she told me no you dont i told yes I want she told me : look we are not actually in love when she said she killed me i felt like an arrow penetrated to my heart its really heart me! i know that when person is high he cannot lie and say all what in his heart what i would like to know is what is the definition of love? is if i did not have sex yet with that person mean i am not in love with her/hem ? is what she said mean that we cannot be in love and the time we spent via Skype was just for spending time and that is it ? or the love has not been created yet? I need a help do I continue in this relationship or I have to quit ? please please answer me as soon as you can thank you for reading
Awake? What? Love is not sex and sex is not love. Love is also not Skype. Sorry, I don't think it's possible to fall in love or get to know a person based on several Skype conversations.
Then you have never experienced love. Love is not just seeing the person before you. Love can manifest in many ways.
I never said that. But yeah, I don't believe in falling in love with someone over the Internet. I worked very hard on that one.
... ain't we lucky as each gotta decide for themselves what love is (and what not). If our individual experience was all identical, how valid would it be anyway? To aysser, give yourself time and space - plenty - and drop your expectations. Like flowers, a relationship needs sun and rainy days to grow. But you are like the gardener then, and love is your way to see the world. Just thoughts.
