hey all, being on medication for over a month now, anti depressants/ocd related aswell, due to my worry ov being gay. very relaxed with the thougths ov being gay now, which is due to te medication. so what makes someone gay, do people find that the genitalia plays a part n the attraction for the same sex, is it the feeling ov getting fucked in the ass that makes someone gay
Uh, that's great. You're gay yourself so you should know what it is. It's different for everyone and it isn't sex which is the reason. No one knows the exact reason. For me, it's just attraction - I find certain men incredibly attractive and I just dont find women remotely attractive, especially not sexually, and nothing like the way I find men. It's not the dick that I like, but the whole thing. For example, I find beards a turn on an (hopefully) most women dont get them so that's one thing. Another thing is just personalities of guys and the way I find that attractive and the way they are different to women. I guess that makes me gay. PS. It's spelled "of" not "ov"
the thing is i aint gay mate, i have hocd, and was just wondering a few things about what gay people find attractive about other men
UK i've seen some of your posts... and you just gotta give in and accept that you are gay. either that or you have some bizarre issues of worrying about being gay "even though you aren't". sorry to be so blunt.
its because i have being diagnosed with ocd, obbsessive compulsive disorder, which mean when i think about being gay, i cant stop thibnking about it, meaning for the last 4 years i have sexual thoughts about men, and it made me depressed because it was something i didnt want
Slushie's right, it's been quite a while you've been posting, and there's apparently no sign of getting better for you. I don't get that thing people keep talking about. People make a fuss about this HOCD... Damn, you're gay or you're not. You're thinkin' about it for 4 years now, but keep it all inside. Just cut the crap, give it a try, quit thinking there's something wrong. There's nothing wrong in finding who you are
