with a girl for about 6 months now, cant stop thinking ov men every day ov my life, sexual things kissing them. even when i am with my girl get intrusive thought about men even tho i like being with her. i get aroused with her like erections ann stuff like that, she just has to touch me and stuff, need help feeling alone again.
I do not see anyone here who can really help you with your problem. If you feel like messing around with other men, you are 24, and old enough to know what to do: get going and have some fun. If men are who you both dream about and desire, men are who you ought to have sex with. KD
but its something i really dont want in my life i dont want to have a relationship with a man, its the sex that seems to sort of interest me not sucking cock or anything, for some reason its the penetration, help me please
Relatively few men are really interested in having any kind of a love relationship with other men. If you do not feel like going there, you really do not have to. Even more so, there is no reason for you to fear that anyone will be seriously demanding any kind of a relationship whatsoever. Penetration or not, you really feel like having sex with other men... So, what's stopping you? KD
You are interested in being penetrated? Or you are wanting to penatrate? I am kind of confused at what you are saying. If you are more interested in women and want to try being penetrated yourself, which is what I gathered from your posts, then that is somewhat normal. Have you considered asking your girlfriend to help you with that? Some chicks actually enjoy switching roles at times, and you may like it. If that is what you mean, give it a try sometime. If not then if you explain a bit more someone may have some advice that can help you better. KewlDewd66: dont be so hasty to talk for other people. You would be surprised who may have advice for people, dont turn them away so quickly.
If you fancy men, act on it. I am a pretty liberal guy, think people should live however makes them happy. Whether you decide to do so when you are with your girlfriend, that is your business however.
I was not turning away anyone. And, nope, I was not 'hasty' to talk to anyone either. These are FREE boards. A guy posts his question, his concern, his venting, whatever. And all the other members are free to post their answers, reactions, views, etc. if and when they find fit... Right? I certainly did not "close" the thread or prevent you or anyone else from posting your views on the subject. I can see that you may not like the advice I have given here. Sorry, if that is the case. I usually advocate a simple, no-nonsense solution that requires the guy asking for help, get going to get what or who he wants. Consider the position of the original poster. He apparently wants to be penetrated by (or wants to penetrate) another man. He does not want to have any emotional involvement with his male playmate, and wants to have sex, pretty much according to his scenario only. There is really nothing out there to stop him from getting his scenario played out as he sees it fit. Simple, easy, and inexpensive. We all know the usual channels, don't we? You are suggesting that he asks his GF for help. His GF is obviously a GIRL. By the nature of thinks, she may or may NOT be happy to use a dildo and penetrate her male partner, who she has probably been raised to believe would be the one doing the penetration! No doubt, quite a few women would see 'the switching of the roles' in their bedrooms as a welcome change, etc. Equally so, other women will start assuming that a guy who wants to be penetrated actually craves a dick up his tail, and is strongly tending towards being a gay bottom dude. Right or wrong, this may make her see red flags all over the place, too. Last but not least, I see that the major problem the OP has been addressing here is the fact that he really feels like having penetrative sex with ANOTHER MAN and not with any woman wielding a dildo around, whatsoever! As with so many other things in life, if there is something that you want or need, you get going and you get it. We would all like to believe that there is some miracleous way out there that would allow us to have all we want to have without doing anything about it but simply by stating our wishes. Being a grown up man, I know that this is NOT how the things work out... Hey, maybe it is just this time time of the year? "Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus!" KD
