Hi! I need advice

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  1. beautiful_disaster

    beautiful_disaster Member

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    :( I may be losing my friend. I feel like I'm losing her. We've known each other for a while now! She has started to go her separate ways since she met new friends and I know it's quite normal to have new friends but she went out one night with her friends without me and I know she had a cool time.

    I think she prefers them to me. We are close but I guess I'm used to feeling like this. I've never really had a best friend. I only had friends that I just see around, which I can't go to for advice and all that other stuff. Whats wrong with me? I don't want to lose her. I've never had a friend which I can show affection towards, I'm scared they'll think its weird or sappy.

    Any advice? I'm tired of feeling like this. I am happy for her it's just I fear that we may drift apart. I'm confused.
     
  2. BraveSirRubin

    BraveSirRubin Members

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    Talk to her. Tell her you are feeling left out, if she is a true friend... then she will understand and try to improve the situation.
     
  3. beautiful_disaster

    beautiful_disaster Member

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    Thanks! I'll try that! Im very hesitant when it comes to stuff like this!

     
  4. cerridwen

    cerridwen in stitches

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    hate to say but sometimes that's part of growing up... we all evolve, and our friends often don't evolve in the same direction we do... talk to her, but it may be time to move on.
     
  5. keenan

    keenan Member

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    try not 2 let it bother you and get you down. mayb she is jus movin on but your sure to make new friends. just speak to her and tell her how you feel and ask her wat she honestly thinks of you and your friendship
     
  6. melissabee

    melissabee ~BabbLe TraNsMiTTeR~

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    "i got friends all over this country
    i got friends in other countries too
    i got friends i haven't met yet
    i got friends i never knew
    i got lovers whose eyes
    i've only seen at a glance
    i got strangers for great grandchildren
    i got strangers for ancestors"
    ~Ani Difranco
    ;)
     
  7. fylthevoyd

    fylthevoyd Super Moderator

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    welcome to the forums
    as far as your question goes...you just have to speak your mind..keeping it bottled up won't do you any good
    plus you have found a site that has potential friendships running all through it
    making and losing friends is all part of the life process....you can't let things such as that hold you down...you have your live to life...live it to the fullest
    enjoy yourself and have fun while you are here....see ya around
    check out the chat room here to meet people associated with the site
    http://client0.sigmachat.com/sc.pl?id=104368
     

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