Hmm...need help...

Okay, this isn't the love forum, but I figured that with this forum getting so many replies, I could put this here.

I hooked up with a girl about two or three weeks ago that I used to date a few months ago before I broke it off to go with another girl since I didn't want to cheat. Now, we've never met in person, but I'm trying to get her to come over. I need to know if you guys think I'm paranoid, right on the mark, or have trust issues (I was cheated on in my first real relationship): She almost always calls at night, she'll tell me to call back in a certain amount of time and then say she was about to do something when I called. She seems like a really quiet girl, and she used the L word one night when we were txting our goodnights to one another, but I said it was too early. Am I a paranoid fuck?

 

You kind of lost me bro, you havent met either girl?

 

I don't think you're paranoid, I just think you're making way too much out of what you don't know. Until you meet this girl you can't assume anything. I have done the online relationship thing and it was a nightmare, I would read into every little gesture and become nightmarishly anxious about it. Do you talk on the phone? Just try and relax and see it for nothing more than it is, a fake relationship with the potential to turn into a real one and isn't worth too much worry until it does.

 

Actually, my friend introduced us, she's sent me pics, but I haven't been able to do the same. I'd say it's real, but to seal the deal we need to meet.

 

O....To Be 14....And Sweet And Innocent Again....

(looks at school photo on wall and bursts into tears)......Then

(reaches for pack of razor blades and fumbles with the wrapping)...


Tears Glen...

 

So, anyone else have something intelligent to say (and by intelligent, I don't mean a repeat of the post above)?

 

no...

 

your post is confusing to me...can you restate the question please?

 

I'm asking if people think she could be cheating, if I'm paranoid, or if I have trust issues.

 

I had a feeling it was going to come to that..

 

She's 73 years old, married, and used to be a guy.

Move on

 

Dumbass

 

How is it cheating if you two have never met? And you're 14! Go hang out with your friends and "date" a girl you will see in person.

As to your question...maybe she is and maybe she isn't. I give people certain times they can call me. If they don't like it, tough shit. I don't keep my cell on and I'm not going to change my schedule just to chat.

 

I knew that was coming again...

 

It's not like we live in completely different states or some shit, we live in the same city, not too far from each other I'd guess.

 

Awww...

 

I have no idea what you're talking about.

 

Cheat, because you're young and can get away with it.

When boys are boys, they never seem to want to cheat, but when they grow up it's all they ever do My god, testostorone must be a bitch.

 

What if it becomes a habit?

 

Meh, he either won't like it and never do it again, or he'll end up being a cheater anyways.