Alright, so my guy and I are really happy together, and the sex is great.... while it lasts. The only problem is that he finishes way before I can, and sex just doesn't last long enough. Does anyone have any suggestions regarding how I can keep my man lasting longer?
hard to say its a complex question with too lil info, there could be many factors that effect his performance and alot can be mental, altho physical factors can effect it as well many guys are in such a rush to have theyre own orgasm they completely forget about yours.. perhaps if u controlled the speed and intencity you'll be able to control more how long it lasts but plz give a bit more info plz if u can
Well, I can't tell if he is simply rushing and ignoring my desires, or if he just simply can't hold it. And I can't really regulate the intensity on HIS side because all of the things that feel great for me, and start me on MY way to getting there, are the things that feel really good for him too. So I guess the problem is that we both enjoy the same moments, and because of that, he can't get me there, as he gets there quickly. I'm not sure what to do.
some people have suggested getting him there, then waiting little then having sex, i cant say for sure i've always (well except 1 time due to meds) lasted long & been able to go beyond orgasm, so perhaps try to after hed get there keepthe connection but much slower for a lil then try to bring back the intencityand see if u cant get him to go on till you get there whats a typical experience like however?
Try doing the deed after you give him a BJ or after he masturbates. Sometimes, they don't cum so quickly the 2nd time around. Also, if penetration isn't getting you off, have him get you off another way i.e. orally or whatever. Since he already got his jollies, you deserve yours too!
I have a similar problem, but I found if you let him get you to a point of being close to orgasm before you actually start having sex, it'll generally work out better for you. And play around with some positions, some feel better for you and allow more control. Personally I like being on top for that reason. Good luck, my dear.
