How did you know...?

The first time I met the guy I'm currently seeing, we played together in the sprinklers at a park after it was supposed to be closed. Right at that moment, I knew he was the one I wanted to be with. Tonight made it feel even more right. While walking down the beach, he just jumped in...all his clothes on. "Come on Annie! Jump in!" So I did. I've never met anyone spontaneous like that and I think it's absolutely fantastic. When we do crazy things like that, I think it makes us feel even closer to eachother.

If you're with someone, when did you know he/she was the one you wanted to be with?

If you're not with someone, who would be the kind of person you'd want to be with?

 

The first time I met my boyfriend in real life, I felt that I wanted to be with him. I've never had a man lay out all my clothes for me in the order that I am to put it on with the first piece on top, a guy who admits that he says things to me that he never thought he'd ever say to a girl, a man who made me feel so special and like a total woman.

Ya, we slept together the first night but he had told me over and over and over again that we will not do anything and just go back to be friends if I don't 'dig' him. I thought, 'ya, ya... whatever, you men are just the same.' But then, he REALLY wasn't prepared. I've never had a man who just flown a scary domestic airplane ride over to meet me and not expect anything!

Ya, I love him totally still, one and a half years down the road, the feeling is just as strong.

 

Aw girls, sounds so neat. I am still single (but happy) because I think i move around too much, but would still love to meet a chilled out guy that I can have fun with like you girls are.

 

Hey Jooles~
I used to moved around alot too, actually, since 6th Grade, I've been moving around that I actually went through so many of my teenage years without a boyfriend! (<.......... my current boyfriend doesn't believe that) Then when I move out of my parents' home, the residue is still there so I moved around too, as soon as my 6 months lease expired, I moved. Then I even moved to India for a year and even there was a constant moving around. I know what you mean but I wish you all the best too! And you said you're happy so that's what matters!

Strange, I settled down after I met my current boyfriend.

 

vanilla, fanx girl! That was so sweet, and I am glad that you have a lovely settled boyfriend. I am living in london for 8 more weeks and then off to perth sunny aussie with my girlfriend for 5 months, then from there, no idea!!

 

Hahaha.. you know what?
You're actually living the life that I've always dreamt of back in high school before stuff that changed our family life happened.

Go girl!

 

Aw, girl. Things may change, you might find in a while you and your man can do what I am doing but together which will be just as good experience cause you will be sharing it each other! Don't let history dictate how your life is now, make your life how you want it

 

I know. Thanks hon

You know, I don't resent or regret things anymore because if those things never happened, I would never have ended up in the same country as my boyfriend or even thought about trying out for a job which I totally love now and through which I met him. If those things didn't happen, I would never have the opportunity to meet him because I am actually now in the country which I never thought I'd live in! Ya, I do believe in fate. It has plans for everybody. Hehehe.. I'm so excited for you.. and I don't know why!

 

You are very sweet vanilla.

 

Hehehe... thank you.
Working around children for too long.

 

Oh yea, what do you do with kids?

My girlfriend (the one who I am moving to perth with) is an prem emergency ward nurse for children, so she is with mainly with babies, and children up to the age of 7, and she is one of the most wonderful selfless people I have ever met.

 

kindergarten teacher.

In this country, children start school at the age of 2 or 3.
I took this class since they were three. They're 6 now, going to elementary school next year. Wow.. they grew and I aged..

I can only handle kindi kids. I tried older ones but just not the same.

 

Well that's what my friend says as well. Sometimes she is rostered for kids ward's and that is anything up to 17 and she finds it vastly different.
Sounds like a great job!

 

ya..

AND... the pay's good. so....

good pay plus I-like-my-job plus my-boyfriend-is-here makes me feel that this place is actually okay.

 

what do you do?

ps, i think we're hogging the poor girl's thread with our own conversation.

Sorry DancerAnnie~

 

Yeah I was just thinking that too. Sorry dancerannie!

Um I am a freelance graphic designer, so move around a lot in my job too! i guess it keeps me interested always meeting new people and satisfying my creative side as well. And also very good pay!

 

Oh wait, she is offline, so she won't know..... hopefully!

 

Ooh...

I used to know some people who does that too.
Ya, I know, good pay and churns our some cool work too!

 

hehe...

wait till she comes back.
She'll be at first excited because its gone past the first page but when she starts reading, she'll be like 'what the........??!' There's nothing about 'How do you know...?'

 

woops, maybe we should rally around then, and get some others to post on this thread for the gal.....