hi all, so, here's my story.. there's this guy at school i like i say like because im not really sure about my feelings, but anyway.. he has long hair, he likes music i also like, he plays guitar (like me), and he has a band, he's a year younger than me but thats no problem cause i dont care what people say, and he looks two years older than me anyway i think he really looks good in sunglasses and leather jacket, and when i see him my heart beats faster i see him every day in school because one of my best friends is in his class, and she knows i like him so she mentioned me to him once, she asked him what he thinked about me and he said i'm cool. and she told him i listen to rock music too, and he said he knew cause he's seen me in my Jimi Hendrix tshirt. so i know he watches me, but im not sure if he likes me.. i mean, i sneak glances at him, and i've seen him look at me, but i havent even talked to him. not even a word. my friend says he's never had a GF so i figured he must be shy (or he dosent like me).. i've already had BFs and some experience, but this is a lot different. how do i get his attention, and how do i know if he likes me? somebody please help me..
you go up to him and ask if hed liek to go out sometime, fo rcoffee or whatever. then you exchange phone numbers, and if youre smart youll set up a time an dplace to meet up for said coffee
you should go up and talk to him. you said he likes the same stuff you do, and he's in a band, and plays the guitar. so talk to him about that. ask him a lot of questions and seem really into him. once you guys have talked for awhile, exchange phone numbers, and then call him. after you guys feel somewhat comfortable around each other, then ask him out!
Go for it hun ^^ Beats sitting around wondering Plus, if he likes the same stuff you do conversation will flow for sure Best of luck!
If you don't want to be so direct (a little shyness never hurt anyone), try this out. You said your best friend's in his classes? Have her ask him if he wants to hang out with her and her friends somewhere neutral (or even her house, if they know eachother well), like the local hangout, wherever it may be (skatepark/movies/mainstreet/park/etc). Be there with her, get introduced, talk a bit; after that talk to him in the halls in school, get to know him enough so it's not awkward and ask if he wants to hang out with you.
I dunno you seem like you just really like this dude. The whole thing was just pretty innocent sounding. cute. good luck though hopefully it all works out for ya.
I think you've been given good advice try to keep in mind that's it's not a big deal. you have common interests, so that's a great start. all you need to do now is find out if you like him for who he is! good luck to you.
thank you all for giving me advice and wishing me good luck and all JimmyP, i know it's not a big deal, tho sometimes i forget mr. green, no, i'm not from London (i was there for a week tho), but then you sound cool too
okay, update.. so, i finally went up to him and said hello and then i was invited to their concert, which is gonna be on this Saturday and i also know his msn address. in fact, i'm talkin to him right now on msn. we get along well so maybe something's gonna happen thank you all for the advice