How do women feel about bisexual men?

This is a question for the women. Are you turned off by bisexual men? Are you turned on by them or perhaps indifferent? I would like to know so that if I am dating a women should I tell her that I am bisexual? Or would that be a bad idea and I would be better off keeping it a secret?

 

hm, i think it's kind of hot.

you shouldnt feel like you have to hide a part of who you are from someone you're getting intimate with. if you feel like you have to keep it a secret from someone you're involved with, then i think you should question that and try to deal with it in an honest manner.

 

A female friend of mine would ONLY date bisexual men...

She said they were more sensitive.

 

yeah i would tend to agree with your friend PhotoGra1...most gay and bisexual men i know are so sensitive and easy going than straight males...
I'd definitely date a bisexual guy, why not?

 

I'm fine with it, but then I'm bi myself. I've been out with a bisexual lad and he was actually one of the nicest boys I've ever met. They seem to be a lot more open minded.
If it bothers her that much when you tell her maybe you should reconsider being with her. But hopefully she'll accept it. Just reassure her it's no threat to her or how you feel about her. I find alot of people feel theres twice the threat when your bisexual.

 

Yeah I would really be fine with it. I actually consider ti is kind of a turn on, that may have something to do with the fact that I myself am bi but either way I think it is kind of sexy when I see two guys kiss and it wouldnt bother me at all if a guy was bi

 

Patrick, you're not the only bi guy who'd like to know the answer to your question. So do I.

But before you respond, ladies, please read my post in the thread, "Bisexual? What's Your Preference?". In it, I admit to having difficulty in forming opposite-sex relationships - and I explain why. After reading that post, perhaps you can offer me some advice. I'd really appreciate it.

-- Skeeter

 

I think you should be totally honest. You are who you are and if you are gonig to be with someone they have to accept that. I personal am turned off by bi-sexual men, but turned on by bi-sexual women. To each their own, right?

 

EXACTLY!!!!!!!

 

Well from my experience. Honesty is the best. Even if it does mean that you loose someone who isn't going to be able to accept you, the real you. I know that sounds heartless but when you think about it if this is going to be an issue for her she is going to dump you anyhow eventually.

Now for your question of if women like bi men. I would say that there are some who do and some who don't. Again this is from women I have met. Just for the heck of it (& maybe you did this) how about posing this question in the Love & Sex part of the forums. There are more straight ladies there & a larger population in general. Maybe here in gayland you would get different answers since the ladies here are more GLBT aware. Just a thought......

 

Hm. I'm totally okay with bi guys. I wouldn't date anyone who wouldn't at least sleep with a transgendered person. Personal standards though.

 

Personally, I'm indifferent. Monogomy is monogomy as far as I'm concerned and when you love someone you don't sleep with other people (in my world, others opinions may differ). I think thats the main concern when it comes to bisexual partners is you feel that you can't offer them everything they crave.

 

I think you bring up a good point. Although I am capable of being faithful to one woman, I think I would still have that unsatisfied desire to have sex with another guy every so often. I would end up fantasizing to gay porn if she insisted on sexual fidelity. I suppose other bisexual people face similiar dilemmas?

 

this is how i have always felt... my boyfriend is bi-sexual and i wonder about this... if i'll be able to satisfy all his desires... i figured out he was bi-sexual pretty much from the beginning so i've always known, and it kinda turned me on, honestly... to think of him doing certain things to another guy. but since we've gotten closer i've gotten mixed feelings about wanting to covet him, keep him all to myself, and the idea of being okay with sharing him. we talk about including more than one partner in our relationship (in a fantasy sort of way) so hopefully if he feels the urge to be with another guy some time i'll be able to support him doing it... *sigh* it's definitely an insecurity of mine though i'm trying to get over it... unfortunately i'm afraid i'll end up hurt and looking to other ppl if i feel my boyfriend already is.

needless to say, i think honesty is the best policy if you want to get close with a girl you should be honest about yourself, and i think your sexuality should probably be addressed early on...

hope that helped....

 

There are certain levels of intimacy and pleasure that I can share with a man that I can't share with a woman -- and likewise, there are certain levels of intimacy and pleasure that I can share with a woman that I can't share with a man. VIVE LA DIFFERENCE!

-- Skeeter

 

there's somethine hot about a guy who likes girls and guys. sensitivity, maybe? understanding, maybe? its just kind of a turn on.

 

just out of curiosity,what kind things would you like to see your boyfriend do to another guy?

 

well i happen to know he loves to suck cock, and has a lot of experience with it. sooo... i would love to see him suck another guy off while stroking his own cock... looking over at me, and then after finishing him off come over to me... knowing he enjoys something turns me on, so yeah, that would be something i would like to see some time. (hope that wasn't too graphic, i know this isn't the love and sex forum)

 

But for a lot of bisexuals, me included, it's not a matter of what can a boy do that a girl can't, or vice versa. It's all about the person. I can be involved with one person and be completely satisfied, not wanting to look elsewhere for anything. I think it's a matter of looking beyond the gender into who the person truly is on the inside. I don't think anyone should be afraid of dating a bisexual person. Most of us are monogamous.

 

oh thank god... i was really getting freaked out by some responses i've been seeing about bisexual ppl who prefer to be polyamorous because they want both...